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Savvy July 2019

Very Sad Bride To Be ...not Sure What To Do...

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Sandra, on June 2, 2019 at 11:37 PM

Everything leading up to the wedding has been nothing but sadness... A brief history...
Last April we announced to my boyfriends kids we were wanting to get married. Naturally his kids were not happy . His girl 21 his boy 15
1 month later we set the date and shared. In June she announced they were getting married in October. So there months after us.
His son came with us to chose the bands. Rather the boys friend conxentraited on buying his son a gold chain. We had food tasting evening and all boyfriend could do was talk about his daughters wedding
He complains about me wanted to buy something special to go with my dress saying we shouldn't spend the money yet gives 2000 to his daughter for her dress.
The only thing left in my heart was the honey moon. Wedding was about everyone and honeymoon is for us . Now this has been cancelled because his daughter is having her syag and doe when we are suppose to go on our honeymoon I'm so sad all I want to do is cry and cry

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Savvy July 2019
Sandra · on June 3, 2019 at 10:04 AM
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We announced our wedding last April and as well as the date of the wedding first and first.
She announced her wedding in June...everytime we have had something to do about the wedding we have had to cancel it because she wants dad time . I should not have to cancel my wedding to accommodate most. . My God no ....this is the only time we can do the wedding . Everything has been paid for since January. This is the second time we change venue for missy....she didnt want to come 6 hours away to have the wedding at the farm claiming that she dodnt have time to come and she needs to prepare for her wedding . So we cancelled everything here, lost deposites rebooked to please her, now I'm suppose to reshedual for her. I think if that was the case they should have decided to make their wedding next year and let us have our day.
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Master September 2019
Sarah · on June 3, 2019 at 10:07 AM
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I’m not suggesting you cancel your wedding for his daughter’s sake. I’m suggesting you cancel your wedding because in my opinion your FH doesn’t really seem to care about you at all. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life coming second in his life? He’s already proven that anytime his daughter says “jump” he’ll ask how high. That sounds like a hellish life for you.
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Master December 2019
Cher Horowitz · on June 3, 2019 at 1:31 PM
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If FH refuses to take your feelings seriously, don't marry him yet! This is a sad indicator of how your marriage could look like. Like PPs said, postpone the wedding. Do some serious work on the relationship if you and FH are prepared to do so. If he still doesn't give weight to your feelings, unfortunately it might be time to end things. Stay strong, and I hope everything turns out for the best
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Devoted July 2019
Nicole · on June 3, 2019 at 9:49 PM
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Why not discuss postponing the wedding? I wouldnt be cool with feeling ignored.
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