Very upset with bridesmaids!!!

I’m getting married soon and I had my bachelorette and it did not go as planned and there’s a lot of tension right now between me and my bridesmaids they all live out of state so I don’t really see them that much at all and I knew they weren’t gonna make it too my bridal shower, but my family members who are throwing me, my shower, wanted to surprise me and reached out to my bridal party to ask them for just a little note of well wishes so that they could include it in a gift that they were giving me the day off I found this out after the fact and no one sent her a message or anything I don’t know what to do. I’m so upset. I’ve reached out to them individually in hopes. we can get past this. It wasn’t like a horrific thing happened. It was just miscommunication and people not happy with how I was acting, but I’ve apologize profusely and just want to get back to the way things were before, but I don’t know what to do.