Vietnamese and Chinese tea ceremony

I would still have it and let the bride's side skip it. Each side has their traditions and beliefs and out you show respect by not taking offense, I think. Let the groom have the ceremony with his side of the family. Sounds like a sweet tradition.

It is the sweetest tradition. But it looks bad his mom refuses to pick up the bride to be friendly and show respect to her family and ancestors. It’s hard to have the party at the groom’s home because it’s so meaningful to have “brought home his bride.” Can’t bring your bride home if your parents can’t even help you pick your her up. The poor bride waited for years for this future mother in law to pick a lucky date too. Once that mama picked the wedding date she said I’m not showing up to your home. It’s so sad.