This will be a second marriage for both myself and FH. We want to share vows with each other's children in addition to the vows we share with each other. I lost my first husband to brain cancer, and have 4 year old twins. FH's vows to them will be fairly standard....
BUT
FH is a bit older than me, and his two daughters from his first marriage are adults! They'll be 24 and 20 by the time of the wedding. Sooooo....what kind of vows would you write to these two? I'll have met they younger one by the time of the wedding, but I won't meet the older one until a few days before the wedding. We've talked briefly via texts, but that's all.
They're very happy for their dad and very supportive of the wedding. But I want to make sure they know I include them as part of our family...but I don't want to be awkward about it considering I'm only 10 years older than the oldest! Ideas, please! Help!