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Heather
Devoted June 2018

Vows-to share or not to share?

Heather, on March 1, 2018 at 2:57 PM

Posted in Wedding Ceremony 24

We are writing our own vows. My question is-as you are working on the vows or even after they are done, did you share them with friends and family for feedback or keep them private until the moment you say them at the wedding? I am sure I'll be nervous so saying them out loud a couple of times...

We are writing our own vows. My question is-as you are working on the vows or even after they are done, did you share them with friends and family for feedback or keep them private until the moment you say them at the wedding? I am sure I'll be nervous so saying them out loud a couple of times before the moment may help it be smooth. What do you think?

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  • A_Mart
    Super April 2025
    A_Mart ·
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    We are writing our vows but keeping them a secret until the wedding day. If you want to practice aloud, maybe record yourself on your phone and then listen back to see if there are things you want to change, places you want to pause for emphasis. It's a nerve-wracking process without feedback but I'm really excited that what I'll say will come from just me to my FH. Smiley smile Good luck!

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  • Sarah
    VIP July 2018
    Sarah ·
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    I think I will be sharing with my MOHs but probably no one else.

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  • Deirdre
    Super March 2018
    Deirdre ·
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    I practiced them in front of my BP. I actually did a run through when we were getting ready and I have a couple of cute photos from our photographer of me reading my vows and my BMs watching.


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  • Tara
    Master May 2020
    Tara ·
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    No no no, I will not be sharing my vows with others. I plan to keep them in a wedding memory book, so that our descendants may read them.
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