Vows?!

If you want something prewritten, try searching pinterest.

I googled wedding vows and took the bits and pieces I liked from what I found and put it together so it made sense

My pastor advised to write down 10 things I love about my FH as a start up for my vow.

Pinterest. I have a whole board on mine named iVow full of ideas for my vows that I'll be pulling ideas from as well as adding our personal touch. I recommend adding a cute inside joke you two have that will make you giggle between tears.

Would agree with PPs, Pinterest has some great ones!

I second QueSeraSera. I looked up my favorites on Pinterest and built my own based on that. My wedding is still a ways away, so I night change my mind.

Https://www.pinterest.com/Celiamilton/wedding-vows-and-readings/ There is actually a mad lib vow generator on there. And there are a lot of ideas on here from many different officiants

Keep them short. Eight to 10 lines.

Keep them simple but not generic.

Do not recount your entire relationship; ideally, your fabulous officiant will have told your story.

Keep in mind that when you get to the vows, your guests' attention span is wearing thin, no matter how they love you. They hear wine corks popping in the background.

Don't make them so emotional you can't say them out loud.

Don't memorize them; write them down.

Don't feel pressure to make them into great literature.

This might be good for you.

@Celia - that's good to know! Mine might be more than 10 lines..

YouTube! Lol just search vows

@que slightly, okay, lol!

My officiant asked us to read "Jewish wedding now" the ketuba chapter has some language similar to vows. I also used brides .com to modify the script he uses for Jewish interfaith maragies

The first sentences is:

"Today let's give _ and _ our hearts and joy as today, in the presence of their family and friends, they celebrate their choice of choosing each other as loving partners."

which I took from a kutuba