I feel like my vows don't flow right or something needs to be added or taken out :/
We made it. After 2 rescheduled weddings. It may not have been how we planned, but the important thing is that we are finally getting married.
While I was writing my vows I was thinking back on what life was like before kids. Pre-kids, we’d go out to leisurely dinners, have unplanned nights out with our friends, spend money on ourselves and we were more spontaneous. We only had us to think about. Post-kids, we love a night of Netflix or PlayStation on the couch, we now have to make plans and we have routine. Life has changed and sometimes it’s not easy, but I love the life we have made together.
Having a baby changed us both, but it just makes me love you even more. It’s hard to be patient and show respect when we haven’t had a full night’s sleep in 2 years, especially when you are really good at the crying chicken game, aka pretend you are a sleep when baby is crying so I have to get up instead.
We have seen each other at our worst, but we are lucky enough to have each other at our best. You are my person and I wouldn’t choose anyone else to ride this roller coaster of a life with.
I choose you to be my husband, my co-parent, fellow tantrum tamer and love of my life.