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Just Said Yes December 2021

Want To Cancel Wedding I’m Past Stressed

Lynette, on August 3, 2021 at 9:06 PM Posted in Planning 0 7
I’m so stressed with this & I’ve changed venues to make the price better for us. All of the things that you have to get for a wedding is so overwhelming. I was told today by my wedding planner that she couldn’t do my wedding date due to her double booking. Last week she told be that she couldn’t really do what she needed to do unless my flower budget was over $5000.00. I’m thinking who spends that much on flowers & I told you my budget in the beginning. I really need a DOC to just come & handle things so I can at least be stress free on my wedding day. This is suppose to be fun, exciting but I’m stressed & just want to say the hell with it & have a tiny wedding with 20 people there. My guy is probably so tired of me changing my mind & let’s not forget the 7 family members who made themselves bridesmaids. I need to learn how to say no & stop worrying about others being upset, it’s my wedding & I’m pleasing everyone but me.

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Latest activity by Lynette, on August 4, 2021 at 8:52 PM
  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    I'm sorry to hear that happening. Your wedding planner should be able to make due no matter what your budget is and the fact that she double booked was very unprofessional of her. If you're looking for a DOC, I'd also recommend looking into Bark or Thumbtack. If I were you, I would honestly change my mind again as well and make things easier on you guys to have a small wedding like you mentioned. You and your s.o. should be enjoying this time and should enjoy your actual day. I'd hate for your day to be ruined by others who put pressure on you to make you feel like you need to say yes to them. I wish you the best no matter what you choose!

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    Just Said Yes December 2021
    Lynette ·
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    Thank you so much for your kind words. I think I will do that because at the end of the day all I want to do is marry the person I love & be happy together.


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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
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    Exactly! I'm sure he'll understand. I honestly didn't think it was going to be this crazy. I see why planners get paid the big bucks lol. Everyone's group of people are different and if you really need to step away from them to have a clear mind, then do so. No one should hold that against you. I'm excited to see you and your guy in all your beautiful, stress free glory!

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    Beginner January 2022
    Sweekriti ·
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    Often times we forget yo experience the joy of most important things in our life. This is a very common thing. Realizing that this is stressing you out a lot is the first step towards getting back on track. Discuss with your groom, try to cut out the unnecessary thing, set a specific time for specific tasks. Experiment and find out what works for you. But for now sit back and relax for a while, it is as important as the wedding.

    Have a great day 😊❤️.

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  • Melissa
    Dedicated October 2023
    Melissa ·
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    Do it!

    cut the list

    fire the bridesmaids

    get some artificial flowers or go for a no flower alternative

    elope

    have a small ceremony and a get together after

    do it however you want, forget the rest!

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  • Heather
    Super November 2021
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    Lynette,
    Girl I am on the same boat as you! I am so stressed because my FH keeps changing his mind or keeps pushing things back. We are two months away and nothing is SET. We have ideas in mind and I am going crazy because the elopement/small wedding vendors are already getting booked up that I wanted to go with. I am ready to either just book everything and have him show up and figure out his side (tux and gifts), or just to literally post pone everything and figure it out another time.

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    Just Said Yes December 2021
    Lynette ·
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    You may just have to book everything & have him show up. Most of them just want to show up & that’s it, they normally don’t care about the plans.
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