"We Fell In Love At Work"

If they cheated that's pretty crappy of them but it seems like they were both on the path to divorce so maybe it was for the best.

Never in a million years would I think friendships at work would slip into infidelity. At all. Friendships are friendships. If someone wanted to limit my friendships at work with their spouse because they feared we'd cheat, that'd be some next-level insecurity

Do you think it's okay to date before the divorce is finalized?

I have mixed opinions on opposite-sex friendships.

You have a good point.

Things are usually stick-a-fork-in-it done by the time the paperwork is completed (my divorce paperwork took almost 2 years for various reasons)...so yeah, I was dating while the paperwork was happening.