My husband and I got married in a small secular ceremony with just friends, and no family. We got married in the country where we live and not where my family lives.
Now, we're going back to visit for a few weeks and my grandparents want to have a religious ceremony for us. They say this is so they can have a 'small taste' of what the actual wedding was like since they weren't there. Namely, they want us to say our vows again and have a ring blessing and exchange. We feel that we're being told that our original ceremony didn't count and that we have to do it again.
We want to make them happy, but we don't want to do anything we're uncomfortable or unhappy with. Does anyone have any ideas for a way that we can create a wedding feel without re-doing our whole wedding?
My parents are on our side, but they have a tense relationship with our grandparents, and I would prefer this not to become an issue that creates conflict and ruins our whole trip.