Is anyone not wearing shape wear under their dress? I'm a bigger girl and was planning on buying some and will need a particular kind to accommodate the back of my dress. I had cups sewn in the dress and I have a couple shape wear options coming in the mail. My family keeps insisting I don't wear anything and say I look fine, but I feel that even if it helps a little bit, it's better than nothing. I just don't trust my family who is telling me this because they also called me ugly at my dress fitting and said they hated the dress I chose. I guess in the back of my mind, I feel like they want me to look bad somehow now. What did you do and what do you think? If none of the shape wear works for my dress, does it look OK also? (more pics in comments)
