I know some of you will understand where I’m coming from so hoping I can get some practical tips here. Weddings are clearly expensive, so before we booked I put together a budget ($15k) and clearly explained to my FH that he’d be responsible to help pay. I can afford to pay for the wedding without him, but I feel it’s important that we equally share this cost. I also have been more diligent with my savings and am way more conservative with spending than he is. Now months into the process he hasn’t contributed anything and every time I discuss it, he commits again to it but then has yet to give me any of his portion. Instead of learning how to curb his spending or budgeting, he’s selling things or asking family for the money. I know for a fact he can afford to contribute if he would stop spending money and be proactive about paying for it. Now he starts throwing at me that this is the wedding “I want” not that this decision was mutual. I’m confident this is just typical male processing (and money is not my fiancé’s strong point) but I don’t want to get down to the wire and this be a huge issue.
How do I communicate to him that it’s important to me that he show he can financially contribute without being like condescending or feel like I’m being his mom?
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