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Kevin
Super October 2021

Wedding Announcement or Not

Kevin, on March 25, 2020 at 12:00 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8
Just want to start off with this is so dumb to post with how many weddings are being cancelled and postponed right now and I feel for all of you. I don’t want to be insensitive that this is an issue with so many people having bigger ones at the moment. So sorry to everyone who is going through that.


So we are getting married in October and are having a smaller wedding than we originally wanted so there are a lot of family and friends out of state and out of the country who we are not inviting. We wanted to send them announcements with wedding pictures after we get back from the Honeymoon. We were also going to send wedding themed Christmas cards to everyone invited and not because we both really love Christmas cards and are excited to send out our first year as a married couple. My fiancé thought it was weird to send out announcements late October and Christmas cards in November back to back. Should we not even send the announcements because Christmas cards are right around the corner?

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Latest activity by Judith, on March 25, 2020 at 9:09 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I personally wouldn’t want to spend twice the money on cards and postage within two months, but if it’s in your budget, I don’t see why not.
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  • Kevin
    Super October 2021
    Kevin ·
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    It is in the budget, but we are trying to cut back on some things and this seemed like something we could easily cut.
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  • Cassandra7
    Super August 2006
    Cassandra7 ·
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    Send announcements after the wedding to close friends/relatives who were not invited. Send holiday cards in mid-December. Do not send pictures with either the announcements or the cards.

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  • Kevin
    Super October 2021
    Kevin ·
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    The picture was going to be on the card not separate printed photos. Should I do a plain card ?
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  • Cassandra7
    Super August 2006
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    I would send a plain card. I would never send pictures unless someone specifically asks for them.

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  • C
    Savvy October 2020
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    If I had the budget, I would do both! If you feel uncomfortable bc of what your fiance said, I probably wouldnt include a wedding pic on the December Christmas cards, however, maybe a different picture from this year could work. I personally love receiving pictures of my friends and family!
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  • Anna
    VIP October 2020
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    I think if you are looking to cut down on the budget this would definitely be an easy and sensible thing to cut. I’m getting married at the end of October and was definitely thinking wedding photos on the Christmas cards this year. I agree that sending out similar things within a month of each other seems redundant and a waste of money in printing/stamps.
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    Judith ·
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    Send announcements. And on them, put your full names and titles , and how you prefer to be addressed, as well as contact info. As well as info like when and where married . If wedding pictures are going to be a while, have your announcements, just a small card, ready to go immediately after your marriage, before you go on your honeymoon. That is the traditional time. And send pictures with your Christmas Cards. People use your wedding announcement card to update their address books. And people like to think they are important enough to you, that even if not invited, they hear about your wedding from you, not the grapevine. ... Like most people planning weddings, you likely have gone through the process of finding out addresses and SO, educational degree titles, who likes Ms. Or Mrs. , Same names or new ones, in order to issue invitations. So as one of the first acts of your married social life, indicate you want to stay in touch, by making it easy. If you do not want to spend much, copying the same card you have made onto individually addressed emails is fine. Announcements are an informal communication. And lots of people will copy your announcements directly to their phone or computer. Save postage of announcements, then spend on Christmas cards with pictures only .
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