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Wedding bands width concern

Perla , on August 16, 2018 at 3:07 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 7
So FH & I found our perfect bands few months back & put them on layaway. We just picked them up last week. Unfortunately when we got them, my band width ended up becoming very thin after they resized it. Went from 6.5 to 8.5. I brought the concern up to the jewelry co., they said they don’t make band widths les than 1mm & that mine was wider at 1.5mm, & to have it “fixed” & made a little wider they would have to redo the whole band & “the results won’t be worth or as noticeable as I’d like for the amount it will cost. I’m mainly afraid that the band could break or something as time goes on.

was given 3 options: (1) keep it as is, (2) Exchange it for a different one & pay the difference , (3) pay to “fix” the width

question: has anyone been in this situation before? Does anyone have thin bands? Have you had issues with them?

pictures are attached so you can see how it looks by itself & with my e-ring.

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7 Comments

Latest activity by Emily, on August 16, 2018 at 11:24 AM
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    Savvy October 2018
    Amy ·
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    Beautiful band! If you are happy with the band otherwise, soldering it to your engagement ring might give it extra stability. You could ask about that option.
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  • futurmrslowe
    Super December 2018
    futurmrslowe ·
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    That is really thin! I think I’d be concerned too.

    I suspect they were being cheap and couldn’t / wouldn’t add extra gold to the band to keep the width while they enlarged it. I get that gold is, literally, money... so it’s not in their economic interest to add gold for free. They should have been up front with the fact that this would be the result and maybe you’d have done things different and/or found a way to provide some additional gold for them to use.

    Id do a bit of complaining to management.
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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
    MrsV1027 ·
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    Mine are like that just opposite. My e-ring is thin in the back and my wedding ring is thicker. I wouldn't worry too much about it.

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  • Happily Ever Mrs. H
    VIP October 2018
    Happily Ever Mrs. H ·
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    Same here. My engagement ring and my band are the same width and I originally wanted to do two bands, one for each side, but now I'm thinking there isn't enough room on my poor finger for it! I already have the stones set aside on layaway, I wonder what I should do with them? I wonder if they can make a thinner band for the second one. All thing I need to ask them, no doubt. We weren't planning on having the second made right away.

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  • Saskia
    Devoted September 2018
    Saskia ·
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    That is very thin, however I think it would be fine - especially if you soldered them. I suggest soldering for two reasons, 1) it will minimize the wear on the band (which WILL happen over time) and 2) it will ensure the band doesn't bend. Honestly I'd be most concerned about the band bending which would cause the stones to come loose. My engagement ring is fairly thin, slightly wider than your band, and has become bent twice and required repair. For the record, I worked at a jewelry store and am VERY easy on ring. I will be soldering it for extra stability as soon as we are married. If I want to reverse it later I will (can be done as long as the metals are the same).

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  • Kristen
    VIP August 2018
    Kristen ·
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    That does look very thin! I don't like this jeweler- they FOR SURE could have done it properly they just either didn't want to or know how.

    The soldering idea people had was good, but if you are like me and will want the option of wearing the rings separately, I would just pick another ring.

    As beautiful as it is, it is too thin to wear everyday and expect it to hold up through time.

    I was going to pick a more expensive ring that was thinish and my jeweler advised against it for that reason. (I assume she was being truthful because that ring she advised against was hundreds more than the one I ended up getting so she could have had a bigger payday)

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    Devoted August 2018
    Emily ·
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    Have you gotten a second opinion from another jeweler on replacing the shank? I have my great grandmother's engagement ring from the 1920s. Before my FH proposed, my mom had the ring checked, and one of the things they did was replace the base of the shank because it had become very thin over the years. I'm not sure what that individual cost was, but the total cost to repair my ring (re-cut the main diamond which was chipped, replace the main setting, fix the shank) was $700 and I doubt the shank repair was the biggest part of that.

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