Wedding Ceremony
Join groupFrom the processional to the recessional - and everything in between - this is your space to get answers to everything you’ve ever wondered about vows, unity ceremonies, officiants, traditions, and more. After all, the wedding ceremony is what this whole shebang is about, right?!
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![Jess](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/6/4/3/5/utbp_8636435.jpg?r=19300)
So FH and I are struggling to find an upbeat country recessional song! I love Keith Urban and Luke Bryan, but nothing from them is hitting me quite right. Suggestions?
I want to do unity sand instead of the candle. Is it wrong to not want to keep the unity sand after the ceremony? It seems like most brides don’t keep the unity candles, so why should I keep the sand?...
![Cassie](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/3/2/9/utbp_8133329.jpg?r=15007474)
I'm having such a hard time finding anything I super relate to. My FW has a reading she is doing that is a song that she has loved FOREVER. I was trying to find something personal to me, but I'm just,...
![Audrey](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/4/1/9/1/utbp_8494191.jpg?r=14523174)
Hopefully we have some Evanescence lovers here!!! FH says I can't have Love Exist as our first dance (We'll see!!) but that I can incorporate Evanescence/Amy Lee somewhere in there. The new album...
![April](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/4/3/4/6/utbp_8904346.jpg?r=59008)
Looking for ideas for simple and sweet wording for a wine ceremony that is not very religious. Thanks!
![Angelica](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/1/7/2/8/utbp_8511728.jpg?r=15117862)
My fiancé and I agreed (even before our engagement) we wanted to elope. Do a just us (&MOHs) ideally in SF. Well due to finances and work schedules that plan won’t happen. We’re going to stay in...
![Jo](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/5/8/1/3/utbp_6805813.jpg?r=15045121)
Was it difficult for you to choose your wedding officiant? Did you meet many professionals before you were able to decide who was right for your ceremony? What were the important questions you asked...
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![Mary Kate](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/5/8/8/7/utbp_8575887.jpg?r=14768132)
I am curious if anyone has any knowledge about the legality of using officiants from the Humanist Society, as reflected by the laws of the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania. As far as I can tell, from my...
Hi all ! Congrats to all the brides/grooms here! Need some help specifically with couple's and guests' perspective on having church and reception on different days. Wedding is 4 months away. Only Save...
Hi Everyone! I am looking to have a gender equal wedding ceremony, as some parts of a “traditional” wedding ceremony just don’t reflect us as a couple. For example, both my parents will walk me down...
![Caytlyn](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/7/6/8/1/utbp_9267681.jpg?r=36902)
Our wedding date is 8/31/2019. Summer is definitely not our ideal season, but you can imagine how quickly barn venues in Kentucky book for the fall. Our plan is to have an outside ceremony (30 minutes...
![Kayla](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/4/0/4/9/utbp_8144049.jpg?r=14173444)
I have no idea what song to use for our exit! Does anyone have any suggestions that are country songs?
![AJ](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/6/1/7/4/utbp_9326174.jpg?r=15215513)
i haven't been to many weddings, and the ones I have been to had long aisles. I'm having trouble figuring out how long my processional music should be, because the aisle at my ceremony space is not...
![Morgan](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/9/0/3/5/utbp_8889035.jpg?r=15136740)
What order are you doing your processional and who is included? Are bridesmaids and groomsmen walking together? There seems to be so many different options out there.
![ThatGirl](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/7/9/6/3/utbp_9007963.jpg?r=15163828)
I am about as out of touch with music as humanly possible... If it was released after about 2001 I probably haven't heard of it... (I feel seriously sorry for my DJ!) I am a podcast & NPR geek......
![No](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/6/1/3/9/utbp_8716139.jpg?r=15455694)
Hey everyone! I'm really stumped on this one, and thankfully have time to figure it out. I really want all of our parents to walk down the aisle, but I'm not sure how that should be paired. Our...
![AprilInTheD](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/2/4/4/utbp_8273244.jpg?r=14304842)
I am looking for not the average Processional song for a beach ceremony - In Jamaica. I LOVE rap and Jack Johnson but both are a bit too fast. Does any one have any out of the box ideas for songs? I...
![Alix](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/9/2/9/7/utbp_7139297.jpg?r=13591752)
Hello everyone! My fiance and I are planning on having a very family driven wedding. I want to include both of our parents plus our siblings in some kind of unity ceremony. I like the unity candle,...
![Emily](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/6/4/1/7/utbp_6986417.jpg?r=13756830)
Hey ladies, My FH wants to do a dollar dance because it is a tradition. Im not a big fan of it, I hate dancing especially with people that are not my FH. Did any of you do something as a replacement?...
Hello I'm 47 years old and my fiance is 54. He has never been married and I'm getting married after 20 years of being single. I'm wanting to ask my mom and stepmom to be my flower girls. Obviously my...