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Decorating two aisles
amaris, on February 14, 2018 at 4:05 PM

I’m a DIY bride with a tight budget! And before the church I’m having my ceremony at had a center aisle but after changing the chairs AND CARPET (last minute) I am out of ideas of how to decorate TWO...

Megan, Feb 15, 2018 16 311
Mary
dj vs live music for ceremony
Mary, on February 15, 2018 at 12:56 PM

I haven't been to a ton of weddings, so I don't know what's "normal", but do DJs often provide the music for the ceremony, as well as the reception? Music is the one thing that I'm having trouble...

Pickles, Feb 15, 2018 7 758
Victoria
Processional...how Many Songs?
Victoria, on February 14, 2018 at 2:10 PM

I'm trying to find a resource for how many songs to pick for the processional and I'm failing. So our Processional order will be my FH with his best men, my two grandmothers, his great aunt, my mom,...

Abby, Feb 14, 2018 8 599
Allison
Dad & step dad walking me down aisle?
Allison, on January 27, 2018 at 8:06 PM

I want my dad and step dad to walk me down the aisle. Not sure what would work best, both of them all way way down, or each one of them walking me half way down aisle. They don't really get along, so...

rimo, Feb 14, 2018 15 5,911
FutureMrsR
Should i be concerned with ceremony seating?
FutureMrsR, on February 12, 2018 at 7:09 PM

A little backstory: my ceremony venue is a bed and breakfast type place, and (weather permitting), we're doing the wedding in the backyard/garden. My wedding has 33 guests invited, including everyone...

Madelaine, Feb 13, 2018 11 683
ThePeoplesBride
Self Officiated Ceremony
ThePeoplesBride, on February 11, 2018 at 11:41 AM

FH and I aren't considering this but I recently stumbled upon the idea with one of the most recent OffBeat Bride email newsletters. Thoughts? Concerns? Is this an option you would consider? Why or why...

plangalCG, Feb 11, 2018 23 449
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Standing room?
Tiffany, on February 9, 2018 at 11:14 PM

I feel like I already know the answer, but we will be keeping the ceremony short, hopefully 30 min tops. Our ceremony venue has very limited built in seating, is it in anyway acceptable for some...

Tiffany, Feb 10, 2018 28 1,397
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Cats, in my wedding?
Khrystelle, on February 8, 2018 at 1:30 PM

Hey all. My first post. I said yes on Sunday, and we set a date of 8/18/18. Most things are handled already. However Hubby-to-be LOVES animals, we have 3 cats, 2 geckos, and 3 sugar gliders. He really...

Jennifer, Feb 9, 2018 19 852 1
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Free wedding ceremony
Kip, on February 7, 2018 at 11:48 PM

There is a free wedding ceremony in B.C. This weekend. wear what you want, bring your marriage license and show up. I almost wish I wasn’t so dead set on a wedding and reception with my family. Such a...

Kip, Feb 8, 2018 7 694
Jables
Freight Train tracks along outdoor ceremony area
Jables, on February 7, 2018 at 12:47 PM

We are planning a ceremony and reception at the samesies venue with a 20-30 min ceremony in the courtyard of the area. Freight train tracks run along the back of the building and I'm concerned there...

BrandiWeds18, Feb 7, 2018 10 218
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Recessional song
Alex, on February 6, 2018 at 10:45 PM

Me and my fiancé love old throwback songs! Trying to think of a good upbeat funny song for the recessional. Any ideas?

Orange_Mellen, Feb 7, 2018 6 342
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My 3 year old walking me down the aisle
Kaitlyn, on February 5, 2018 at 9:26 PM

Hi everyone! Going to keep the long dramatic story short and straight to the point, my step dad walked out on us about 2 years ago (My sperm donor has never been around) he isn’t invited to the...

Bride2B, Feb 5, 2018 7 1,306
FutureMrsB
How to decorate pergola
FutureMrsB, on February 3, 2018 at 4:49 PM

My wedding venue has a beautiful pergola to get married under however I'm not sure how to decorate or if I should do anything at all. It is exremely large and I am afraid anything I do will look small...

FutureMrsB, Feb 4, 2018 8 1,219
Casey
What time to have the ceremony?
Casey, on February 3, 2018 at 5:34 PM

Hey everyone! So I am getting married in December, in a rustic barn venue. Next to the barn (where we will have the reception) they have a chapel we will most likely get married in - unless it's a...

earias, Feb 4, 2018 12 305
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Weeping Willow Tree in California for Ceremony
Jkgoni, on February 4, 2018 at 10:55 AM

Hello, we we are looking for a wedding venue that has a willow tree that we could get married in front of. Does anyone know places in Sacramento, Lake Tahoe, or within a 2 hour radius of Sacramento???...

Jkgoni, Feb 4, 2018 415
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Ceremony on dance floor??
Kassandra , on February 3, 2018 at 7:54 PM

Hello brides!! I’m wondering if any of you have had or been to a wedding where they did the ceremony on the dance floor of the reception area? If so, how did you like it? Thanks in advance!

M.Hand, Feb 3, 2018 2 405
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Goes by middle name..
J.Taylor, on February 1, 2018 at 9:15 AM

Okay y’all, I know it’s my wedding and I can have it how I want. BUT, FH goes by his middle name. What is the norm for the officiant to refer to his as during the ceremony? Example: “Do you FirstName...

Mrs.hays, Feb 2, 2018 8 405
Mar816
Fh’s Niece and Nephew
Mar816, on January 19, 2018 at 12:59 AM

Don’t be scared to get creative here because I’ll take all suggestions! I have a daughter who will be 5 by the time we get married and to give her her own spotlight, she’ll be the flower girl and ring...

Bride2Be, Feb 1, 2018 22 1,254
Elizabeth
diy Unity Cross
Elizabeth, on January 31, 2018 at 1:08 PM

I would like to do a unity cross for our unity ceremony during the wedding. My finance's grandpa can make one for us, but I'm not sure what I want it to look like. I'd prefer something that can hang...

Stephanie, Jan 31, 2018 1 1,056
Future Mrs
Jumping The Broom
Future Mrs, on January 30, 2018 at 5:37 AM

Is anyone jumping the broom? I’ve always wanted to do it, not for any religious or historical reasons. I just think it’s cute. I’ve gotten a lot of negative feed back from friends saying I’m being...

AQuixoticBride, Jan 31, 2018 49 1,075
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