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From the processional to the recessional - and everything in between - this is your space to get answers to everything you’ve ever wondered about vows, unity ceremonies, officiants, traditions, and more. After all, the wedding ceremony is what this whole shebang is about, right?!

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Samantha
How are you incorporating kids
Samantha, on September 28, 2020 at 8:24 PM

How are you incorporating children into your ceremony? I’ll have two ring bearers, my nephews ages 1 and 1.5 and they’ll be escorted by my mom. Are you having flower girls or junior groomsmen or...

MLS, Oct 1, 2020 32 197
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How to walk down aisle pairings?
Doxie Mom, on September 30, 2020 at 3:20 PM

How do people walk down the isle? How are you doing yours? I was wondering if it would be weird to have my mom walk down twice? I would like her to walk me down the isle but I also would love for my...

Meghan, Oct 1, 2020 10 161
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Did You Tip Your Pastor/officiant
Adrienne, on September 30, 2020 at 1:51 PM

Hi All! So I know that good practice is to tip your vendors, especially if they did a great job! Our minimony is on Saturday and I just got the fee breakout from the church secretary. This is what she...

Kristen, Sep 30, 2020 7 117
Steph
Music
Steph, on September 27, 2020 at 5:14 PM

My ceremony is at a church. We have a violin player for our music. I wanted to know suggestions on what the bridal party should walk down too and what I should I walk down too? But I do not want to...

Michele, Sep 30, 2020 3 92
CountryBride
2Nd time bride 1st wedding
CountryBride, on September 25, 2020 at 2:15 PM

My fiancé's Aunt spoke her mind about our wedding and for some reason I am letting it effect me, I was married when I was 18 and divorced by 21. I had a backyard wedding and didn't get to pick my...

Bo Miller, Sep 30, 2020 12 276
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Wedding day
LISA, on September 29, 2020 at 6:12 PM

What are you brides ,putting out for food while you and your bridesmaid ard getting ready?

Molly, Sep 30, 2020 9 143
Kristen
Incorporation of family for elopements or minimonies?
Kristen, on September 28, 2020 at 8:30 PM

So as I have researched elopements is not necessarily just two people running off to get hitched. Has anyone included family in their elopements or minimonies or would you incorporate family in...

Kristen, Sep 29, 2020 4 97
Rachel
Wedding Photographer 😍
Rachel, on September 29, 2020 at 2:23 PM

Hi, Ladies - I wanted to show a little bit of the work that the photographer (I’m almost 100% sure we’ll be working with him) my fiancé and I are considering for our wedding. What I love most about...

Melle, Sep 29, 2020 10 207
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Bridal Party or Immediate Family in First Row?
Meghan, on September 29, 2020 at 8:57 AM

Hi all, As I'm sure many of us have, my wedding coming up is not the original wedding I had planned, but something we sort of pieced together last minute after everything else fell through. My problem...

Katie, Sep 29, 2020 8 1,297
Mrs. Spring
This kiss, this kiss (unstoppable) This kiss, this kiss
Mrs. Spring, on September 23, 2020 at 11:15 PM

Yes, this post may be strange and silly! I attended three weddings last year and I noticed when eavesdropping, that a few guests made comments about how the couple's kiss wasn't "romantic." How does...

Mrs. Spring, Sep 29, 2020 30 452
Sandy
Wedding celebration 2021
Sandy, on September 28, 2020 at 5:53 AM

My fiancé and I postponed our August 15th wedding ceremony that was planned due to the pandemic . We had invited 130 guests for the occasion. At a second taught, we decided to just go ahead and have...

Sandy, Sep 29, 2020 16 166
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Replace the honking car procession with ringing bike procession
Hannah, on September 28, 2020 at 6:30 AM

We dislike cars, we don't have cars, we wished our state would spend all the money it spends on streets for cars into the train and bike net. So how could the traditional honking car procession really...

Becky, Sep 29, 2020 6 112
Marissa
Review my ceremony script!
Marissa, on September 28, 2020 at 5:24 PM

Hello all! So I'm getting married on 10/10 in less than 2 weeks! And I've been working on writing my ceremony script. Our Officiant is my FH's grandfather (not biological, but raised him since birth)....

Samantha, Sep 28, 2020 4 139
Liz
Table
Liz, on September 28, 2020 at 2:29 PM

Our ceremony is outside under an arch. We didn’t plan on candles or sand ceremony or anything like that. Is there a need for a table under the arch? Would the officiant need something?

Anna, Sep 28, 2020 8 95
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Regret eloping
Noelle, on September 25, 2020 at 6:43 AM

My husband and I grew up together and he joined the military right out of high school. We were 19 when we eloped. We’ve been married for a year and 6 months and now I’m really starting to regret not...

Khyra, Sep 28, 2020 17 369
Emily
Order of Bridesmaids
Emily, on September 27, 2020 at 12:09 PM

Hi! I would love to hear your opinion on the order that I should have my rice please. I will have two of my fiancé sisters, two of my closest friends, two of my cousins and of course my maid of honor...

Maureen, Sep 28, 2020 11 170
Marissa
Declaration of Intent and repeated vows?
Marissa, on September 28, 2020 at 1:36 PM

So my wedding is less than 2 weeks away, and this week I'm working on writing our ceremony script! Our officiant is my FH's grandfather, who has only officiated one other wedding. He gave us a couple...

Marissa, Sep 28, 2020 5 1,024
Julie
Down the Aisle
Julie, on September 26, 2020 at 1:58 PM

Hi Brides! So my fiancé and I have a very small Bridal Party, but we really wanted to include our whole family. We’re having trouble deciding who walks in with whom and he suggested walking in with...

Meghan, Sep 26, 2020 6 147
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Flower girls/junior bridesmaids
Adriana, on September 25, 2020 at 9:47 PM

Ok so this is a lot but I need to explain the situation. I originally had 3 flower girls and they all already have the same dresses. One of them is going to walk with the ring bearer because he is so...

Adriana, Sep 26, 2020 7 162
Sub ceremonies
, on September 21, 2020 at 9:08 PM

Hey guys ! I’m in the process of booking my officiant and wondering what other cool sub ceremonies are out there ?? The unity candle seems a bit boring to me and also the ceremony is outside so the...

Kimberly, Sep 26, 2020 9 138
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