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From the processional to the recessional - and everything in between - this is your space to get answers to everything you’ve ever wondered about vows, unity ceremonies, officiants, traditions, and more. After all, the wedding ceremony is what this whole shebang is about, right?!

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Cyndi
Religious Lyrics for Bridal Chorus / Here Comes the Bride?
Cyndi, on October 27, 2019 at 1:45 PM

Hi all. We are having a Catholic wedding, which traditionally doesn’t allow the Bridal Chorus or Wedding March bc they are secular. Is there any version of these that have new Christian lyrics? I...

Lady, Oct 28, 2019 4 162
Sydney
July wedding outdoor ceremony start time
Sydney, on October 23, 2019 at 1:00 AM

For any brides who got married in mid-late July (or are currently planning a July wedding) and had an outdoor ceremony, what time did you have yours start? We plan to have a short ceremony but need to...

Hannah, Oct 23, 2019 10 688
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Walk Down the Aisle: Instrumental or Lyrics
Megan, on October 22, 2019 at 3:08 PM

Hi! We are getting married on November 16th, 2019 and I am walking down the aisle to You are Mine by Spencer Combs (ft. Holley Maher) starting at the 0:55 point--I'm getting a little worried about the...

Liz, Oct 22, 2019 6 884
Lilly
Pre-ceremony Snacks?
Lilly, on October 20, 2019 at 3:33 PM

Hi all! I recently stumbled upon the idea of serving refreshments and maybe a snack before the ceremony for guests to enjoy. Has anyone done this? What snacks did you serve? My wedding will be outdoor...

Melle, Oct 21, 2019 11 1,616
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Ceremony seating for microwedding
Cindy, on October 18, 2019 at 9:44 AM

Hey all, We are having a microwedding with about 20 seated guests. We're planning to have it on the back patio of an Airbnb overlooking a lake (I've cleared it with them, don't worry!) and I'm just...

Cindy, Oct 20, 2019 7 478
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Ceremony Timeline in February?
Olivia, on October 1, 2019 at 2:19 PM

I am getting married on February 29th, 2020 and am trying to decide on a ceremony time. I am mainly just wondering about pictures and what time to wrap up. I life in East Tennessee and the sunset time...

Katie, Oct 18, 2019 4 290 1
Cara
Catholic Priest gift
Cara, on January 13, 2019 at 11:50 PM

We are having a Catholic wedding ceremony this summer and I was wondering if it’s customary to give the priest something as a thank you. We’re already making a donation to the church the ceremony will...

Elaine, Oct 18, 2019 6 941 1
Priest wants my fiancé to be confirmed?
, on February 14, 2019 at 12:48 AM

So we met with the priest at my family’s church last week and the priest said that he would like my FH to be confirmed before we get married. He was technically baptized Catholic and made his first...

Elaine, Oct 18, 2019 29 1,718
Latonya
"Who gives this woman away"? But is it necessary
Latonya, on September 26, 2019 at 2:35 PM

Ok here is a question to the many that i may post for feedback. I am a 40 year old mom of 3 and FINALLY tying the knot with my significant other of 8 years. I have been on my own for over 20 years and...

Camilla, Oct 17, 2019 35 1,190
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Nervous to mess up vows
Jessica, on October 4, 2019 at 10:45 PM

I'm nervous that I'm going to mess up my vows. Were you guys nervous? Did you or your spouse mess up during your wedding? I'm prone to mispronouncing and messing up when I'm talking normally, and it...

, Oct 16, 2019 9 911
Amanda
Writing own vows
Amanda, on September 30, 2019 at 4:55 PM

Who is writing their own vows or did write their own vows? Any tips or advice?

Samantha, Oct 15, 2019 46 606 2
Adrienne
Honoring deceased father
Adrienne, on September 24, 2019 at 9:36 PM

My father passed away when I was little and I don’t want anyone else to walk me down the aisle, so I will be walking alone. Any ideas on how to incorporate his memory into the walk down the aisle? I...

Kari, Oct 14, 2019 20 1,608 1
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Catholic Ceremony - Unity Ceremony
Brittany, on October 11, 2019 at 6:13 PM

We are having a Catholic mass for our ceremony. We thought we would have the unity cross ceremony at the church, but the church won't make an exception for this. They only allow the unity candle,...

Clíodhna, Oct 14, 2019 4 491
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Having 2 "weddings" one being a blessing - can i wear my dress again?
Megan, on October 11, 2019 at 10:18 PM

Background: I just moved out of state to be closer to my fiance. We're getting married in the Catholic church in his state because he has a disabled family member that can't travel. But I don't want...

Clíodhna, Oct 14, 2019 3 819
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Petal Toss wording helppppp!
Desiree Landry, on October 13, 2019 at 1:46 AM

Hey guys! So, a little back story, when my fiance and I started "dating" things were a little slow getting started because I was terrified of being in another relationship after a horrible...

Sinéad, Oct 14, 2019 4 401
Laura
moh and bridesmaid songs?
Laura, on October 11, 2019 at 5:00 PM

I have my song to walk down the aisle to all set. "Bless the broken road" by Rascal Flatts, but i'm drawing a total blank on the song for my MOH and bridesmaid to walk to. I've been wracking my brain...

Laura, Oct 13, 2019 17 445
Lyndsey
What are you putting your vows on?
Lyndsey, on October 4, 2019 at 11:02 AM

We are each writing our own vows. What are you putting them on? Printing them on a piece of paper? Putting them in a little book? And should I have my maid of honor carry for me? Or the officiant?...

Yoice, Oct 11, 2019 35 2,604
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Writing vows for a snarky introvert
Kiley, on February 14, 2019 at 1:16 PM

This is going to sound super stupid and whiny and I'm sorry in advance. Does anyone have advice for writing vows for someone who has spent a whole lotta years building up snarky walls who now has to...

Suzanne, Oct 11, 2019 11 529
Johnnica
Elopement stories
Johnnica, on September 29, 2019 at 8:34 PM

So we are thinking about eloping to the courthouse since having even a small wedding is too much for us. I definitely would love to hear you all court house elopement stories. Like hair, makeup,...

Caitlyn, Oct 6, 2019 4 175
Annabel
August 2020 wedding?
Annabel, on March 27, 2019 at 9:19 AM

We are moving our date to August due to the venue being cheaper that month and some of our guests not in school yet (college students, teachers). We are looking at the last two weekends in August to...

Emily, Oct 3, 2019 2 177
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