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Just Said Yes June 2020

Wedding dress shopping

Anna, on August 11, 2019 at 9:53 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 14
Okay question for everyone! Who do I bring to go wedding dress shopping? I’m going to have my mom, two sisters and mother in law go and future sister in law. But then I’m leaving out my best friend and two sister in laws! Is it ok to invite my best friend (maid of honor) but not the other two bridesmaids?

I wanted to keep it small but I definitely want my sisters to go and mother in law is very excited- and my future sister in law has no other sisters and she’s so excited I want her to go! But then my best friend also doesn’t have any sisters and I want her there too! What’s everyone’s advice? Thanks in advance!

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Latest activity by Anna, on August 12, 2019 at 7:22 PM
  • Jennifer
    VIP October 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    DRESS SHOPPING:

    Here goes, long but:


    1) HAVE FUN!!! And go to a few places!


    2) Try on ALL the styles to see what actually does look good on you. And try on white as well as ivory/cream.


    3) Bring the underwear, bra, shape-wear, pantyhose, heels and jewelry options for a high and low neckline you will most likely wear.


    4) Bring snacks: gum, mints, candy, crackers. As well as water, juice or clear soda. As well as bring any meds you take, even if you don’t think you’ll need them. Aspirin and ibuprofen can be a life saver for you, And your girls/guys!


    5) Bring only the top 3 people. Too many can make it not a fun experience. Remind them they don’t have to be catty/petty, but can give advice & comments.


    6) Go in with Pinterest, magazine or printed out dresses that you like.


    7) What does your closet have more of? Slinky and sexy or full and romantic styles of dresses/gowns? That can always be a good indicator of what you are likely to lean towards.


    8) Remember, and why they do this I have NOOOO idea, the dress they put you in is going to be one to three sizes BIGGER than what you normally wear. And the sample is not going to fit the same, as it’s been handled and tried on, many, times before.


    9) Tell the stylist what the wedding vision is: Church, barn, beach. Winter, summer, indoor or outdoor. Small or large wedding.... That way they can help guide you and your people...


    10) Wear the spray on or clear deodorant and limit perfume/lotion. As well as being the deodorant and feminine pads with you. Light days can double as armpit sweat stoppers.


    11) Wear limited makeup- no lipstick!- so as you don’t get it on the gowns. If you MUST be full faced bring a clear shower cap to hold over your face when they are putting the gowns over you head( I model and that is a trick we use!).. Trust me the stylist will love ya for it!





    1. Also, remember that the size you wear is going to differ from what they put you in. Meaning if you wear a size 8 they will put you in a 10-12. It can be disheartening to see that larger number, but remember that you are NOT the number, you are the beautiful soul inside that gorgeous gown!
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    I personally think that 5+ is way too many people to take shopping. The more people, the more opinions. I just took my mom and it was great. You won’t likely buy a dress the first time you go shopping, so maybe you could consider taking different people for different trips? Mom, FMIL, and FSIL for the first appointment. Mom, best friend, and two sisters in law for the next or whatever. There will also be fittings that you can invite people to.
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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
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    I agree with Caytlyn. That’s a lot of people. I went with just my mom and dad and it was the best decision. I took my bridesmaids with me when my dress came in for pick up so we got to experience that together. I tried it on for them, we put veils on and did all the things, and it was just as special. But you really don’t want a bunch of opinions being spouted off to you during the dress shopping experience. So I’d either stick with your original plan, or trim that number down by a couple.
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  • Samantha
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    Samantha ·
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    Some bridal salons cap the number of guests they can accommodate. The bridal salon I’m going to limits you to the bride plus four people. I’d check with the bridal salon before bringing a large group so that you’re sure they can accommodate you, especially if you’re looking at smaller shops.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    I would choose people whose opinions mean the most to you. As PPs said, more people can cause more issues and make it hard to decide. A larger entourage can really be overwhelming with their clashing opinions and tastes, too!

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    Melle ·
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    I actually didn't bring anyone with me aha. But for you, keep it to few people.
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  • Paula
    Savvy November 2021
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    I brought my mom, step mom, matron of honor, maid of honor, and my bridesmaids.

    = 7 people (including me)

    I thought it would be too many people but I called ahead to all the dress shops and it was fine. It was the best day ever!
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  • Kirstin
    Dedicated June 2021
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    I don’t have sisters. I invited one of my bridesmaids and my best friend(MOH) but not the other 2. Told them I could only be 4 and I had my mom and my future mother in law going. One of them had to work so they didn’t mind and the other was fine with it
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    Just Said Yes June 2020
    Anna ·
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    Thank you for all your advice!
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    Anna ·
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    That’s great advice, I guess I’m worried about offending people but I can invite the maids to a fitting!
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    Just Said Yes June 2020
    Anna ·
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    Thank you Meghan, I think that’s what I’ll do! I probably won’t find it on the first go around anyway haha
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    Anna ·
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    Thanks Samantha I actually didn’t even think of that, I’ll call first to make sure about a cap on people!
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    Dedicated November 2019
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    Check in with the dress shops some only allow 3 people. At the end of the day it is up to you. Its a great experience but, having that many people and opinions sometimes can be a lot.

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    Thank you Kiki, it’s a tough decision but I think everyone is right, the more people the more opinions! 😁
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