Hi All,
So my fiance and I have been planning wedding stuff and got pretty overwhelmed with the cost and craziness of all the wedding planning. So we decided to do a small wedding/elopement of sorts with our parents and then a couple of weeks later do a bbq potluck for friends and family. We're providing the burgers and drinks and then people can bring their own dishes. So what is the etiquette for this? I need tips for how to set this up and what to do at the party. Do we do games, toasts, cake etc? We'd like it to be very relaxed & people enjoying themselves with no stress. But i'm not sure what activities/wedding stuff we should do??? Also for a relaxed bbq can we still do regular plates and wine glasses? or is that too fancy? We had already bought the plates and silverware and i would hate to use paper when we already have this.What do we wear? Should I wear my wedding dress,a white summer dress, or jeans with some sort of wedding themed t shirt etc? and what about him?
Thanks