Long story short...we invited a couple who is friends with my parents. The couple then asked to bring their adult daughter and boyfriend who were not on the guest list. My mom agreed without consulting with me but it is what it is at this point.
The daughter and the boyfriend sent a $65 gift for the two of them from our registry. Both have full paying jobs and are out school for years. The value seems pretty low in my circle (bare bone minimum$100 for two people) but since they are plus 2s...do they get a pass in your books?
I'm not trying to nickel and dime and I'd absolutely understand if some friends who are on the guest list sent a low cost gift given their circumstances...but with plus twos that were not initially on the invite, I guess I feel a bit less generous consider we will be hosting them for a whole weekend of activities and not just one night.