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DanteNicole
Savvy April 2022

Wedding Hair style blues: i didn't get the exact style i wanted when will i get over it

DanteNicole, on April 16, 2022 at 12:07 PM Posted in Hair and Makeup 0 11

Wedding Hair style blues:  i didn't get the exact style i wanted when will i get over it 1
So basically, 🤣, my hairstyle wasn't exactly how I wanted and I am trying so hard not to think about these small things, because the wedding day was amazing and beautiful. There was only two things I was sad about and this was one of them. (I made another post about the other ). Basically the person I wanted to do my hair has her own shop and couldn't find her. So someone else who has done my hair. I didn't speak up, but I shown her a picture of me with the style. I told her it was odd she needed only one pack of hair, because it was always two but my hair was longer so I let it slide. But basically it came out very boring and honestly the day before my wedding day I wanted to cry, because I wanted my hair to be fuller and puffier, it's not just hair for me. Luckily, thank God to my SIL, she added hair and made it look similar to what I wanted so I was super happy. Now that I look a pictures an see the back I am sad again bc it was thin. I just want to know on average when did you all stop sweating the small stuff. Because I want to so badly. What did you all do to get over it? Sometimes I tell my self, "this isn't the last big party you can have the hair you wanted on your baby shower in a couple of year" to make myself feel better.

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Latest activity by Eleon, on June 6, 2022 at 7:09 AM
  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
    Michelle ·
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    Honestly, it took me a couple of weeks. I think your hair was beautiful. I zeroed in on your face- the look you have is pure joy!
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  • DanteNicole
    Savvy April 2022
    DanteNicole ·
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    Thanks!!! I know it is silly but I have been nitpicky on everything
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    Rockstar
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    You look gorgeous sorry you didn't love your hair (I do!) but your smile in that picture is amazing! Congrats to you!

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  • Fiona
    Super May 2024
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    I honestly think your hair looks great and the smile on your face is amazing Smiley smile. Instead of focussing on the all the stuff that you are upset about try and just focus on all the positives Smiley smile You said the day was amazing and beautiful so just focus on that Smiley smile Easier said than done I know but it's all I have to help.

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  • Fardowsa
    Beginner April 2022
    Fardowsa ·
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    Sis, your hair was gorgeous! You look absolutely stunning. Don’t get caught up on little things!
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  • Sloane
    Super May 2022
    Sloane ·
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    Sis! You look Flawless. But I do understand how frustrating you may feel for not having your hair the way you envisioned! But honestly I love everything about your look!
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  • Mrs.evans
    VIP October 2022
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    I dont see any problem that you do but your smile saids I look stunning which you do. And you and your husband now had a amazing day so I know girl when come to our hair dress and makeup we want to br point all of it. But as you stated this will not be your last party go and enjoy your married life now Congratulations
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    Dedicated September 2023
    Grace ·
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    There was an article I read about how "you may hate your pictures." And it's point was that perhaps today and tomorrow, you may not like them. Maybe your hair wasn't how you wanted, maybe your necklace was crooked, or something else. But the truth is: there will be a day when you look back on these pictures and you won't see the tiny thing out of place, but you will see the joy on your face, and the special moments that were captured. I try to use this mentality when a picture is taken that I don't like. It will be treasured, even if I don't like the angle on my face, at this exact moment. Next week, next month, maybe next year - but there will be a point where I look at it without judgment. And just love it all.

    So in those moments of wanting to obsess over the thing I don't like, I remind myself that this is a special picture. And it will be loved. And honestly, I stop looking at that picture and maybe find another one that brings me joy instead to look at in the meantime. Really try not to focus on it. You'll come around.

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    Eleon ·
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    I think you're exaggerating, and your hair looked amazing.

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  • Kristen
    Expert October 2021
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    I think it looks gorgeous! I can also see that smile on your face, which tells me you didn't hate it as much as you think you did. It's easy to scrutinize because you had to go with a backup, but you'd be surprised at how well backups can surprise you. When we had to reschedule our wedding, we got to keep our DJ company, but we had to get our second-choice DJ because the one we'd originally booked had another engagement for our new date. The backup guy was fantastic! I don't find your hairstyle boring at all.

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    Eleon ·
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    But if something does not suit you after the beauty procedure, it is better to tell the master right away. My sister went for eyebrow microblading a couple of months ago. She did not like the result immediately after the procedure, but she decided not to tell the master. As a result, she did not like her eyebrows, but she did not want to do laser eyebrow correction. It's good that her beautician advised her in one article HOW REMOVE MICROBLADING EYEBROWS AT HOME . These tips helped her a lot. So it's better to immediately tell the master what you don't like so that it can be fixed.
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