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Social media and a phone call are most easy and convenient but there are other ways to communicate. If you are the one who owes a big apology then the effort needs to be commensurate whether that means mailing her an actual apology letter, sending flowers, a gift or a dinner and showing her you are taking steps to make sure that whatever happened won’t happen again.


I think your attitude toward your sister needs to be more about making this right than the unfortunate timing. Otherwise she will think you’re only doing this for appearances.
Absolutely no to “replacing” your sister, something that no one can or should be asked to do. Let her know the honor is and will stay hers. Anyone can offer to plan or host parties with or without that title. If no one else plans, then they don’t happen.
Start there, and if none of this works let her know the door will always be open to her when and if she’s ready.

This does help and your very right. Thank you

View Quoted Comment Thank you for the advice you are completely right and I love the feedback🙏

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You are very welcome. How are things going with your sister? Any progress?