I wanted a small wedding bc I have a small fam. and his is huge! We joked saying my side would have 20 people and his 80. His family argues about us not allowing kids & cake, When I said I wanted chocolate cake I was told "You know his brother hates chocolate cake."
My fam is small & now my brother called last week to say him and his wife could not make it but never gave a straight answer why. With my family at this point dropping out it is really making me start to regret this big wedding. I feel like this is for show for his family. We spent over $18,000 and I feel like for what. We married 14 Aug last yr and are having this now for fam & friends, no one besides our BFF knows we are already married. This morning his unc passed and we were asked if we can postpone the wedding which is in 26 days. He wants to press on because everything is basiccly paid. At this point i am stressed and torn.
