Wedding is in 5 days, and I'm filled with so much anxiety.

I think I will be the same way on the week of my wedding. I have my girlfriends coming to stay with me the week of my wedding since my FH won't be at home. I don't have any real advice for you except do some self care. Take a nice long bubble bath, put a face mask on, lotion up and try your best to breath 🤣☺️

Every bride I have ever known has either been peaceful and not disturbed
by anything, even though there were more things she wanted to do. Or they have been an anxious wreck. No middle ground.
Unexpectedly, for me, I moved to the planet of smiling happiness ( as my Dad called it) about 2 weeks before my wedding.Nothing bothered me. The venue could have burned down, O would not have cried. Luckily for all, everything just began to fall in place, exactly as planned, with minimal help from anyone. No coordinator. Like a visit from an old friend where everything is just like you left off. 🙃As people who have worked with me in crises before know, I sing silly songs from childhood, ar recite childish poetry or favorite book passages, when I am in a spin, and need to calm down. It is impossible to be upset when singing Teddy Bears' Picnic, or repeating the philosophy of Winnie the Pooh, or reciting The Cat in the Hat.

Already have it set in your mind that things here and there may go wrong. There is no perfect wedding but there is the perfect wedding for you.

You just have to consign yourself to the fact that not everything is going to be perfect and that is OK the wedding is about the love that you share with your significant other the rest of it is just pomp. Now with that said just try to take some deep breath‘s the day will be here before you know it and it’s going to go by so very fast! And if all else fails try aromatherapy or a glass of wine to calm day of nerves

Stop.

Take a deep breath.

PUT YOUR SHOULDERS DOWN.

Unclench that jaw.

Now let out that breath.

Do it again.

AGAIN.

Ok, you'll be fine. Put on something that helps you focus/get busy work done, and prioritize.

You can do this!