Ok, this is a hard issue to talk abt due to the nature of the matter.
I don't want to leave my baby with my parents on the wedding night even, let alone the HM, bc he's slept with me from the day he was born. Hes gonna be touching 3 yrs of age by the time we marry.
FH agrees and understands we shouldn't leave the baby anywhere. Now I know he needs to grow out of sleeping with me slowly... I was thinking around 5 yrs old. But my question is: is this fair to my FH? Even though he agrees and baby sleeps good throughout the night... Plus everyone's saying there's no energy for hanky lanky the night of... And they both adore each other too. 2) does the fact that my son isn't his biological son make a difference in this matter? My son calls him 'daddy' and they're awesome when with each other but I don't know... There's something in the back of my head... Maybe more so bc of the stuff ppl say.
What's ur take?