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Beginner June 2017

Wedding night question..

Rachel, on February 1, 2017 at 7:50 PM

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Are you wearing lingerie under your dress or changing into it after? Or are you not even worrying about it? We are waiting until marriage for sex, so I wanted to wear the cute bridal lingerie, but under my dress, all day? Not happening. And with the top of my dress, I couldn't even do it. But would...

Are you wearing lingerie under your dress or changing into it after? Or are you not even worrying about it?

We are waiting until marriage for sex, so I wanted to wear the cute bridal lingerie, but under my dress, all day? Not happening. And with the top of my dress, I couldn't even do it. But would it be weird to change out of my dress and into it after?

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  • Michelle
    Beginner October 2017
    Michelle ·
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    You can shower together the morning after, considering you will be exhausted after the wedding. Once he gets out and goes into the other room you can stay in an extra few minutes and slip on something sexy...he will be so surprised and love it! Hope this helps - spontaneity is always a plus

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  • soontobeRTR
    Expert February 2017
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    I would shower and then change. I will prob be sweaty form dancing.

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  • Miami2NorthernVA
    Master November 2017
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    I am wearing regular underwear and no bra because my dress has one built in. I think we will be too tired for any activities the night after the wedding.

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  • SHINY OBJECTS
    Expert March 2017
    SHINY OBJECTS ·
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    No, but we live together so nothing is a surprise. Lingerie is just an expensive waste for us...I've worn cute undie sets before and he just looks for a sec and then is like whatever, great, take it off. He doesn't care what I wear before getting naked, he just wants to get to the naked part. Smiley smile but I definitely would not wear under the dress/all day and night. Change into it-it'll be more comfortable and then it won't be sweaty when it's time to get it on.

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  • Danielle
    VIP March 2017
    Danielle ·
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    We're waiting too and I just bought some pretty lingerie as well. I'm definitely just going to wear nude underwear under my dress and then when we get to our hotel I plan to take a quick body shower and change into the lingerie. Our venue closes at 10 so hopefully we aren't too tired, but if we are we'll just wait another day till our honeymoon and I'll wear it then!

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  • xray12280
    Master June 2017
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    If we don't both pass out from exhaustion I will change into it. I'm going for completely comfortable under my dress. I'll be wearing some comfy granny panties all day and a longline bra under the dress

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  • Nicole
    Devoted October 2017
    Nicole ·
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    I'm planning to keep mine for the honeymoon as a romantic surprise

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