Wedding night

Our wedding was out of town so we already were staying in a guest house. I spent the night with my MOH, but couldn't resist saying good morning when I heard his voice. On wedding night he started to pass out while I was putting on lingerie in the bathroom. When I came out... Well, he saw me and promptly woke up 😉

My fiancé and I have been together 5 and a half years and living together for almost 3 years. My future FIL actually got us a fancy hotel suite for the wedding night as a gift, even though we live in the same area. We haven’t been away together in awhile and my future brother in law rents a room with us. So I think changing up the setting like that and taking some little steps to make it special, like new lingerie and not seeing each other up till the actual ceremony help make it feel more unique and special. We’ll enjoy the view of the city beneath, take a hot bath in a big tub, have some late night snacks, and probably relax and talk about the day. If there’s no sex, no pressure. If there is, sweet. Like everyone else has said, passing out will be unavoidable at some point lol

We’ve been dating since 2019. Living together for about a year. We will just spend it apart. I’ll be staying the night before at the hotel. No first look, so I’ll see him when I walk down the aisle.

We've only lived together for two months, and we're getting married in June. Things are still pretty new for us.

He's not staying with me the night before, so I won't see him after the rehearsal luncheon.

I made reservations at a fancy hotel for the night after (we fly out the next morning for the honeymoon anyway so it just doesn't make sense to go home). Maybe try out something new? Or a lingerie set he's never seen?

How comfortable are you with her? If it was my sister or sister in law id be fine asking her to wait until after the wedding. I mean to me, that would ruin the photos and I would look back and hate it'.


I would maybe phrase is it like "I've been thinking about your hair and I think that is going to look awesome, but is it possible to wait until after the wedding? I'm just worried that it may clash with the rest of the bridesmaids"
I don't think any one of my friends or family members would be upset with this. You can't police her hair but you can suggest she wait. Like it's your day. If it was my sister and she said no she was going to dye it anyways I'd kick her out bc unless there's a very specific reason she needs to do it, she can wait. That may be a bride zilla but also I know my sister would understand and not do it.

View Quoted Comment It makes complete sense LOL, I know I will be exhausted after a year-and-a-half of planning and all the long week of getting things ready