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Devoted March 2021

Wedding nightmares...

on November 12, 2019 at 4:55 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 24

Has anyone else had bad dreams about their wedding?? Last night I had the STRANGEST dream about the worst wedding ever!! Lol

First of all we were at a house I’ve never been to before and it was an indoor outdoor reception. Half of the party was outside talking and the other half was inside with the DJ. So I go inside to check it out and had to go to the bathroom...in a HALF bath with a stinky dirty toilet that I did NOT want to sit on, so I’m trying to hold my dress up and then next thing I know, I’m filling the toilet with salad & I had to flush 3 times for it to go down, panicking that it would overflow. Then, I go into the dance floor where they are throwing our garter (without us) and I was so upset, but trying to keep a happy face for everyone. So I sat down next to one of my bridesmaids and whined to her that they threw our bouquet and garter without us and she just shrugged and said “I mean...it happens, I don’t know what to tell ya” and I’m like what the hell?! It’s our wedding! We need to be a part of that!! They can’t do that without us....so I go outside to tell my husband and he’s standing by the fence rolling around in the dirt with his friends and I’m like “What are you doing?! This is your wedding and you’re filthy!” So he brushes it off his chest (white Tshirt) and is like I’m just having fun....so I storm off and go inside to dance and they are playing the worst music that no one wants to dance to (including my dad, who’s in the den watching tv in a band tee with my aunt) dad says “Do I have to? I’m not really much of a dancer...” so I walk out I and I look at the clock and we only have 15 min left and I look over at my husband and tell him “we only have 15 min...we need to change this song!” And he says “no one cares about the DJ, it’s fine” and I’m like we paid a lot of money for this DJ & this is not what we asked for! His eyes widen and he’s like “you’re right! Say something!!” And I woke up....

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  • Heather
    Savvy December 2019
    Heather ·
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    I’ve been having wedding nightmares too.
    One, we completely over slept and missed hair and make up. Which pushed the wedding back to 11 PM start time.

    another one the venue was pee color yellow. Someone else got married on my dance floor.

    i recently woke up in a puddle of sweat because I had a nightmare that the food was made out of play dough and everyone was hungry.

    23 more days and maybe just maybe my eye twitch will go away.
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  • Devoted March 2021
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    Oh my gosh!!!! Lol our minds play the strangest tricks on us!
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  • Heather
    Savvy December 2019
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    My MIL started to talk about the rehearsal dinner and I legit broke out in hives lol. Crazy part is I wasn’t even like “stressed” or thought I was. Pretty much everything is done.
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  • Devoted March 2021
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    Awwww well I hope you find some time to get some rest and relaxation before your big day. It’s going to be amazing!
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  • Crystal
    Devoted October 2020
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    Yup! Often about not finding a dress.
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  • Devoted March 2021
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    You will!! I tried on like 30 before I found “the one”
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  • Crystal
    Devoted October 2020
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    Im at the 30 mark. I feel like I found the one but my family all gave it a thumbs down. 👎
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  • Jessica
    Beginner April 2021
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    Oh have I ever! Many many many nightmares.

    Hair and makeup not showing up.

    makeup melting off my face.

    DJ not showing up.

    venue running illegal business out of their basement and in the process broke my centerpieces and didn’t want to tell me so I walked out to happy birthday balloon centerpieces.

    yep they get worse with time 😂
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  • Devoted March 2021
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    I bought mine alone, no one will see it until my wedding day! That’s how I shop for everything else, so why not this too? Lol get what YOU LOVE
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  • Devoted March 2021
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    Oh my gosh!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 happy birthday balloons! I’d die!
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  • Crystal
    Devoted October 2020
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    I usually ask family input for large purchases. I’ve also never made a purchase this big before.
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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
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    Wedding nightmares are so common!! Weddings and planning take up so much of our minds during the day, it makes sense that it would find a way in to our sleep Smiley xd

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  • S
    Dedicated February 2020
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    I had one recently...I think it’s because we are nearing double digits! My bridesmaids and I were lined up at the church, waiting to go down the aisle. For some reason I was first and they were behind me. And I realized that I had my hair and make up done, but I was in my robe! And my dress was at home so we’d have to send the coordinator to go get it.
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  • Devoted March 2021
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    True! I just don’t feel stressed about planning (Thanks to WeddingWire for keeping it simple and organized) .....until I fall asleep! Haha
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  • Devoted March 2021
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    Hahaha 😫😫
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  • Sherry
    Master September 2019
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    I started having them about 4-5 months before my wedding. I had like 6 of them, none of them any better than the others lol. They were horrible but mine went away the closer we got to the big day.

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  • Erin
    Expert November 2019
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    Ohmygosh! Yes, I had a wedding nightmare when my husband and I were under an immense amount of stress during the planning process. The wedding didn’t start on time, our caterer messed everything up, people were unhappy, hurt, and angry with each other. It was like everything was going wrong. I don’t remember details, but it was terrible. In reality, everything turned out more beautiful than I imagined and if there were any hiccups, we didn’t know because our DOC was amazing! So, not to worry, just follow up with your vendors and make sure they are on the same page as you get closer to your date. I say this only because we weren’t hearing back from our catering manager and we had to go in person to chat, but this was a few days before our wedding and that’s when we found out that the catering manager for our wedding quit and we had to take a few hours to sit down with a regular manager who was standing in to ensure everything was good to go. They took great care of us, but I can’t imagine how differently things would have gone had we not followed up! PS - Your wedding is going to be wonderful and absolutely beautiful!
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  • Devoted March 2021
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    That’s exactly where I am in the planning 😆
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  • Devoted March 2021
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    Yikes!!! I’m glad yours worked out well and you didn’t have a catering catastrophe!
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  • Sherry
    Master September 2019
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    Haha, fun times!

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