My wedding was planned for March 27. As in 13 days from now. Our venue recommended we move and reschedule due to COVID-19, which we already planned on doing because 40 of our 130 guests advised they wouldn’t be taking the risk. I asked my entire bridal party for potential upcoming conflicts. Our new options at the venue were may 9 (still too soon), June 20, or December 11. A lot of the other upcoming weddings came in to reschedule and took most of July and August and the rest was booked well in advanced. Of course I picked June because May is still too soon with everything going on. I advised my bridal party and while a couple had other plans, they didn’t hesitate to say they’ll be there. Except my future SIL. She stated she and one of my other bridesmaids has a 3 day festival of concerts that weekend. My MOH suggested they make other plans but they refused, stating the concert tickets and hotel cost a lot of money that’s not refundable. I advised my future MIL. she took her side, saying “you never consulted her for dates” and my future SIL said “you could’ve picked May, you didn’t consult me, and you can’t expect me to be somewhere when I already have had these plans since January.”
Am I wrong for going off on the two of them? This is my fiancé’s ONLY sibling. His mother always ALWAYS takes her side. Since when am I supposed to “consult” someone when my wedding has been booked and planned since January 2019?! I had to move mountains to make sure ALL my vendors were able to move on such short notice with no extra cost and had to accommodate my work and many other things.
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