Hello, anyone who stops to read this,
I don't really know who to turn to for advice on this subject. I was supposed to get married this past June in 2020 but due to Covid-19 my fiancé and I made the decision to push it back to 2021. At the same time, my very best friend from high school, as well as one of my bridesmaids was also set to get married in October. The sad thing that happened was over the summer we had a small falling out, stress over work, school, and a lack of communication lead to us pulling apart from one another for a short time. We were able to work everything out. She pushed her wedding back a year as well but opted to as least get married legally this year. So the day came and went, and though we have started talking again and hanging out again when I asked her how the day went, she said it was a very low-key family thing. The problem is that yesterday I decided to get coffee with another one of our friends in our friend group. And she let it slip that there was a party and made it sound like my fiancé and I was not supposed to find out about the event at all. At this point, I don't know what to do. I know we had a rough summer but by the time her small wedding rolled around, we were on talking terms. Hell! I even asked her where to send her gift and everything. I feel stuck and at this point, I'm not 100% sure if I want her to still be in my wedding party. Of course, still want her at the wedding. I don't want to seem petty but I would be lying if I said that it didn't really hurt. What would be the best way to ask her why I was left out? And does she really deserve a place next to me on the special day?
Thanks for any help.
