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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Wedding Party - Necessary or Not?

Lynnie, on January 14, 2020 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 68

More and more couples are switching up things up in their wedding parties! Uneven numbers, having brides-men and grooms-women, and smaller wedding parties have all become more popular. Have you ever thought about totally ditching the wedding party? Or can you not picture saying "I do" without your...

More and more couples are switching up things up in their wedding parties! Uneven numbers, having brides-men and grooms-women, and smaller wedding parties have all become more popular.


Have you ever thought about totally ditching the wedding party? Or can you not picture saying "I do" without your bridal crew by your side?


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68 Comments

  • Shari
    Savvy March 2020
    Shari ·
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    Never thought of not having a wedding party. I don't see how this is an extra cost to the bride and groom. Besides the whole wedding party gifts

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  • Leah
    Savvy October 2020
    Leah ·
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    Toss up! Not necessary but I'm having my sisters and best friends stand with me! It's made things more fun too!
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  • Jennifer
    VIP August 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    Not necessary, but nice to have (I have five on my side and FH has five on his side!)

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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    I wouldn't say its necessary. We originally had one but due to scaling down a lot and now having a micro wedding, we no longer have one but hoping they'd still join us in celebration afterward.
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  • R
    Beginner August 2020
    Robin ·
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    I think the wedding party makes it more fun and special. I do have something similar to a groomswomen but she will be dressed as the bridesmaids but shes my fiance's female bestfriend
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  • Erin
    VIP September 2023
    Erin ·
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    I can’t picture my day without out my best friends by my side.
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  • Kendra
    Devoted August 2020
    Kendra ·
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    I wanted my sisters and my best friend in it. And he wanted his brothers, his best friend, and the guy that helped us meet. And we both REALLY wanted his daughter to be a part of the day. She is going to be a Junior Bridesmaid but she will stand closest to us. We will be lopsided, but I'm excited.

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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
    Andrea ·
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    Definitely not necessary but I have 3 bridesmaids, one maid of honour, and there's 4 groomsmen

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  • Monica
    Beginner September 2020
    Monica ·
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    Not necessary. There were too many people who would be offended if we didn’t include them and we didn’t want a huge wedding party so we decided to nix it completely. We will only have a flower girl and ring bearer walk down before my entrance.
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  • Sweet'N'Rhodes
    Devoted March 2022
    Sweet'N'Rhodes ·
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    Not necessary here either. Neither of us know if we even want a BM or MOH.

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  • Tayla
    Dedicated March 2020
    Tayla ·
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    Not necessary but I wouldn’t get married without my girls 🤷🏾‍♀️
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  • Nakesha
    Dedicated February 2021
    Nakesha ·
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    Necessity. Even if it's just your closest friend and the two of you.
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  • Brianna
    Devoted April 2025
    Brianna ·
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    Again, I feel like this is preference. To be honest I don't like my bridal party so I'm passing on having one
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  • 8Bitbek
    Devoted October 2020
    8Bitbek ·
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    Not necessary, but we wanted to honor our closest friends.

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  • Nicole
    Master September 2020
    Nicole ·
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    I don't think they're necessary, but we definitely wanted our siblings and close friends standing up with us. We are going untraditional though with having a best woman and uneven sides (3 for me, 5 for him).

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  • S
    December 2020
    Shelly ·
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    Not really.

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  • S
    December 2020
    Shelly ·
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    Whatever you want to do is fine. Just remember the more people, the more drama can occur.

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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    Not at all required, but necessary for me, personally.


    DH and I were together a very long time, and were among the last of our friends to get married. Surrounding myself with people who had done this before, and could be emotionally supportive, was very important to me.

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  • Katia
    Savvy October 2021
    Katia ·
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    Not necessary at all. I know in some cases it’s implied that it must be a thing. For example in our families, we’ve played with the idea of no wedding party at all, but then agreed an uneven number is fine too! I’m not as close to my family as he is to his, and that’s ok.
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  • Nodyia
    Expert October 2020
    Nodyia ·
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    I need my bridal crew...my MOA I need her for this she's my rock when it comes to wedding details these next nine months are going to be crazy for us and I need her every step of the way...

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