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Candice
Just Said Yes August 2024

Wedding party

Candice, on February 16, 2023 at 10:58 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 8
So I'm pretty sure I am not having bridesmaids or groomsmen. (Drama and hurt feelings) Just maid if honor and best man. Thing is we have select people that would be in the wedding party if we have one what can I call this group and let them know they're apart of it just not standing up with us or the role. I'm not sure I just don't wanna go through the trouble of it. Also I pretty sure my sister will walk me down the aisle but who can I have walk the best man or do I just have hin already up there ughhhh I'm already stressed and just got engaged please help

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Latest activity by Veronica, on March 7, 2023 at 5:18 AM
  • Alyssa
    Super October 2023
    Alyssa ·
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    Girl if you just got engaged take some time to breathe and enjoy the engagement period.

    Wedding party and who walks who down the aisle doesn't have to be decided until 8months before the wedding.
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  • Candice
    Just Said Yes August 2024
    Candice ·
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    My adhd won't let me haha.
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  • Alyssa
    Super October 2023
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    I don't see how, but you do you.
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  • Cece
    Rockstar October 2023
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    There really isn’t a title for people who aren’t in the wedding party. Either they are in the WP, or they aren’t. There is no need to give these people, a special title, wardrobe, etc. Simply invite them as guests and let them enjoy the celebration Smiley smile
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  • M
    VIP January 2019
    Maggie ·
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    I agree with this. You are absolutely entitled to ask whomever you want to stand up with you, and small wedding parties are smart for lots of reasons. But since you are saying you are keeping it small due to "drama and hurt feelings", I can't imagine that giving people consolation prize, "sorry you're not included" titles or tasks would help your situation in any way. Make your decision with confidence and move on with your planning; don't borrow trouble.

    That said, it is often recommended not to ask anyone to be in your party until a year in advance at the earliest. You may change your mind about what you want, your relationships may change, your budget could expand or contract. So much can happen between now and next summer, so give yourself the gift of not making these decisions too early.

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  • Taylor
    VIP October 2022
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    I mean you just got engaged. I also have adhd and know that when you get your mind set on something that you become obsessed with it but trust me you do not need to worry yourself. You’re stressing yourself way before you need to. Just enjoy being engaged. I didn’t seriously start planning my wedding for like 6 months after my engagement because it’s a lot of work and stress and time so ease yourself into it
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  • Jacks
    Rockstar November 2054
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    Save yourself the ongoing headache and don't talk to anyone yet about the wedding party. You really don't have to ask anyone until about 8 months beforehand, which is a the end of the year.

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  • Mayene
    Dedicated March 2023
    Mayene ·
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    They don't really need a title unless you're also planning on having them walk during the processional.

    For example, in our wedding entourage, we have bridesmaids and groomsmen that will stand with us, but we also have "wedding sponsors" that will be walking during processional/recessional that are additional close couples to us for specific wedding tasks in the ceremony. This is something we took from my side (Filipino traditions) to have sponsors for additional wedding ceremony items (veil + cord, arras, unity candle), but possibly something you could take as a title if they are close friends even if you don't have those "sponsor items" tied to them (they won't stand with us, but will be seated). But I'd say only do that if they will walk with you and then you also want formal portraits with them!

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