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Just Said Yes May 2020

Wedding Photos

Kassandra, on November 9, 2020 at 9:21 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 6
I recently got my wedding album from our photographer and was showing my favorites to my MIL at a family birthday dinner. My BIL’s girlfriend kept asking me to send her a link to ALL the photos so she “didn’t have to scroll through my phone” to view them. I got a little baffled but basically said no and that they were mine to share as I please. She wasn’t in the wedding and we aren’t friends, I only see her at family events. She got huffy and offended I wouldn’t just give her complete access to everything. Why does she think she’s entitled to them?


I should also say that she recommended a friend of hers for to do my makeup and the experience was awful. The girl was terribly rude to me and my family the day of the wedding and then demanded photos of me for her to use for social media. Thankfully my photographer took over and said she would work with her to give her some photos of my choosing so I didn’t have to deal with her anymore. When I first got my photo sneak peak, I did share those in a family group chat only to find out my BIL’s GF showed them ALL to the makeup artist without asking me. I feel like she has no respect for me or my boundaries. Am I just being difficult??

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Latest activity by Melle, on November 9, 2020 at 6:23 PM
  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    No, she is out of line and needs to stop.
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    It's your husband's responsibility to speak with his brother about her rude and invasive
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    It's your husband's responsibility to speak with his brother about her rude and invasive behaviour. He needs to nip it in the bud now.
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  • Molly
    VIP September 2020
    Molly ·
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    That is odd. I would not have given her access to all of your wedding photos either. I would talk to your husband about it.

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    Master 0000
    Judith ·
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    You are not unreasonable at all. This is an important time in your life, and you funded a private party so only you and your guests would share that experience. Many people do not care, and give others carte blanche with their photos. But when a couple wants no outside photographs, no smartphones or digital cameras, or when they want control over who is shown their image files, it should be respected. It is rude to invade the privacy of those who politely asked others to stay out.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I don't think you are being unreasonable - you get to share what you want to share.

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