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Cali
Savvy August 2021

Wedding Processional

Cali, on August 4, 2021 at 10:37 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 4

Hey guys,

I want your opinion on what I should do for my wedding processional - I have divorced parents and my dad is remarried and I want my stepmom to be escorted down the aisle as well since she has been a huge part of my life. Here are the people in the procession:


Groom

Groom's Mom

Groom's Dad

Bride's Stepmom

Bride's Mom

Bride's Dad


Then we have 3 groomsmen and bridesmaids that will walk in pairs, a ring bearer and flower girl then me. What is the best way of getting everyone down the aisle? Do grandparents typically walk down the aisle as well (if so, when?)

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Latest activity by Melody, on August 6, 2021 at 3:48 PM
  • Katie
    VIP August 2020
    Katie ·
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    Hi Cali! We had similar situation. We had groom’s grandparents walk down first, followed by Groom’s Dad and Stepmom, followed by Groom’s Mom partnered with my mom. We wanted the moms to have a special moment and once they got to the altar, they lit the individual candles on the altar. We used these later in the ceremony to light our unity candle. My dad walked me down the aisle. When walking back after ceremony, my parents walked together as groom’s mom held hands and walked with the ring bearer (her grandson). Hope this gives you some ideas ❤️
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    Super September 2022
    Sarah ·
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    There are a couple options and it really depends on how comfortable everyone is with each other and how you want things to flow.

    Option 1: Groom escorts Groom's mom, Groom's dad escorts your mom and step mom (although this might get a little crowded), bride's dad escorts bride.

    Option 2: both your mom and step mom walk in together without an escort. Assuming they are comfortable with each other.

    Option 3: Groom's dad escorts one and your dad escorts one and he loops back to escort you.

    There are probably a ton more options, but these are some that I would suggest. We have a similar situation where he has a step dad (that is basically his dad) so I think we might have him escort my mom. But there really isn't a wrong way to do this.

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  • Allie
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    Allie ·
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    My friend had a similar situation, and she had a groomsman escort one of the moms, then come back and escort a bridesmaid. If the mom and stepmom get along, I'd probably have them walk together.

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    Expert April 2021
    Melody ·
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    My parents are still married and my husband's mom came with her boyfriend. His dad was not in attendance and my dad walked me down the aisle. My husband escorted my mom down the aisle and to her seat before taking his place at the front. His mom and her boyfriend followed. Maybe something like that could work for you? It might look like:

    1. Groom and Bride's Mom

    2. Bride's Dad and Stepmom

    3. Groom's Mom and Dad

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