Hey everyone!
My FMIL has been pretty adamant about a bridal shower. At first I was very against it because I do not like the spotlight being on me and feel like there are too many parties before the wedding happens. Also My fiance and I have been living together for some time so weren't going to do a wedding registry instead were going to make a fund for our honeymoon. Now we are going back and forth about adding some house items we've been wanting or gift cards for future projects and am wondering if we would have to have a bridal shower if we were to do that. Is the point of a bridal shower for the guests to bring the gifts from the registry and then they are to also bring cash or gift cards to the wedding? It all seems to be asking too much in my opinion. If we do have a registry but no bridal shower do the guests then bring the gifts to the wedding?
I guess I am asking if you can have one without the other and what the expected etiquette is both for the guests and the hosts. I am also wondering if having a registry with some gift options but also honeymoon items is okay or if it would make more sense to pick one over the other.
thank you!