Wedding Rings - Take Off

View Quoted Comment My FH did. that to me a few years ago and I was so close to leaving him because of it. He knows how I feel about it, and he started again and lied to my face about it for months. So I completely understand where your Spouse is coming from.

We haven’t fought at all. But if we were to ever fight, I wouldn’t take my rings off. Just because you argue doesn’t mean you aren’t married....

View Quoted Comment Deception is a relationship killer. Did he take his ring off because he seriously wants out?
While I would never take my ring off to prove a point, I have zero tolerance for lying of any kind and there would be a serious come to Jesus talk if it ever happened.
I suggest marriage counseling.

View Quoted Comment We talked this evening about everything. He said didn’t mean to not wear it. He said he was in a rush to get to work and was mad when he found the e-cig that he forgot to put on his ring with everything going on. We are working out our stuff and more honest with everything now/working on the stuff we don’t feel good about

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Yes! 100% exactly this.

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If you're having second thoughts about the wedding this far out, I would seriously consider premarital therapy. This isn't spelling success.

View Quoted Comment We are married lol and yes we did pre-marital counseling through our church. We were just going through a bump and have gotten through it all so I’d say we are a success.... I won’t lie I’m a bit shocked that people have such judgements as if they think marriage is always easy and people have to be perfect or your marriage is doomed...you haven’t lived thru hurdles no offense. That is obvious to me.

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Okay, re-read. I wasn't commenting on your post, but a different commenter who isn't married yet who said she was having second thoughts about marrying her FH.

And also, I've been through plenty. Don't be so judgmental yourself.

We aren't married yet, but we would never do this. It is very immature to do so. On your wedding day, you make vows to love each other for the rest of your lives. It is extremely hurtful to take them off during an argument.

No. I take off my ring regularly, playing the fiddle or flute, using electric power tools for work, doing rough work with my hands. Not to spare my ring, to keep me from getting hurt. But I would never think of taking it off to say how mad I was. Because the point of marriage is a commitment, which includes working out your issues, not taking things out on each other. And starting with removing your ring, (or yelling, as some people do) is not the best way to start working things out .

View Quoted Comment Your hurdle was self created. You chose to lie to your husband.

View Quoted Comment I hear ya. Things happen

View Quoted Comment You need to calm down lol. The stuff people say when you are asking for advice. I don’t see that in your post. You just have your judgement and no one really cares for that. Don’t come bomb on my post with that nonsense.

Oh hellllllll no. My FH tried that one time (he wears his early) and I told him if he did that again to pack and leave. Marriage is a lifetime commitment and to me, taking the symbol of that off means you are done with the marriage.