Wedding Shower….with a baby?

I’ll try to keep this short. I need advise on the etiquette regarding showers when you’ve already had a baby.


My fiancé and I had a surprise 10 months after we started dating. Baby was born premature so we missed our baby shower. He moved in with me at my mothers home for support with a premature baby while we remodel our house. He sold everything he had, and I’ve lived with my mother for the last 3 years after some rocky health issues and sold most of my possessions as well. We just got engaged and are planning a wedding at the end of the summer.
My question is, is it tacky to have a wedding shower now? I’m in my 30s with a baby but we have next to no home goods, and also I want the experience of doing this! I feel like I’ve missed out on some things but don’t want to have a shower or let anyone host if it’s tacky.