Wedding Shower

Hi there,

recently i I got a call from the MOG and she was complaining a little that my mom/maid of honor hadn’t touched base about when the wedding shower would be. We are about 2.5 months from the wedding. My immediate thought was why is she talking to me about this. If she needs to know or is getting antsy due to scheduling she can reach out to her/the one who is planning it. anyways so I asked my mom to touch base with her to discuss their schedules and when they could do it. They talked and figured it out. This occurred 2 days ago. I also asked the MOG that they discuss any questions/concerns with each other to get it all worked out as being the messenger person or being put in the middle kind of sucks... she does that a lot to her son too and it has created a lot of issues in the past. anyways so I get a text from her today asking if I could chat about the wedding shower as she had some questions. I told her that I thought my mom and her could just talk to each other. My mom is running it so I’m not really getting involved except for telling my mom any preferences. I’m leaving it up to my mom how much involved she wants her to be. I just don’t really get why she isn’t reaching out to my mom. I want MOG and her to be able to talk to each other and have open conversations especially since my mom
is running it. It doesn’t really make sense to me and I don’t understand why being put in the middle is a constant thing for her.