Hey everyone! My FH and I will be getting married January of 2022. His SIL reached out to me saying she wanted to plan one of our showers/parties, which I'm over the moon about! My MOH also told me she is wanting to host our couple's shower January/February of 2021. His SIL told me she can throw us our engagement party for the next coming months (we got engaged July 31st), or she can plan a bridal shower closer to the date.
We also thought about having 2 couple's showers, the one my MOH is throwing (with our close friends), and have his SIL plan our couple's shower with family & family friends.
My questions is, should we skip the engagement party since it would be so close to our couple's shower hosted by the MOH, and just have 2 couple's showers for different groups? I also am wanting to have a bridal shower with just the girls, and I'm not sure who would host that. Is 3 showers too many? KIM each shower will have different people invited (with the exception of the bridal shower, which would have the ladies invited from both couple's showers attending). TIA!