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Savvy November 2020

Wedding stress

Sam, on October 23, 2020 at 8:47 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 7
Well my wedding is just 22 days away and the Ohio governor is threatening to shut down again. This has caused me so much stress knowing that if I planned it in early October I wouldn’t have had to worry about another shut down. I’m just hoping we can stay open for 22 more days so I can have my wedding! Added stress is my FH parents decided back in September that they are separating for 9 months but in October my ffil told many people we work with they are actually divorcing. I informed my FH so he didn’t find out from a random person at work and when he confronted his parents they told him I was a liar. My dad is now mad and confront ffil where he then backtracked everything he said. Between them and the Ohio governor I’m stressed to the max.

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Latest activity by Lynnie, on October 23, 2020 at 12:36 PM
  • Margaret
    Master October 2020
    Margaret ·
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    Sam, breathe and have faith. It will all work out. Keep in touch with your venue, talk to your vendors and just breathe.

    Sorry your FFIL is being a butt.

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  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
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    Girl I’m sorry you’re going through this! Keep in touch with your venue/venders & remember you have no control over any of it! Fingers crossed they’ll hold out for 22 more days! As for the FFFIL -he’s a jerk. Yes I put an extra F in there & you can use it as you see fit.
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    Savvy November 2020
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    Thank you Smiley smile it’s just knowing there was a period of time in September and October where people could have weddings and that if I would’ve scheduled a month earlier I wouldn’t be in this situation! And I appreciate the extra F, both of the parents have drove me crazy and made this even more stressful
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    Savvy November 2020
    Sam ·
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    Thank you! I’m definitely staying in touch with the vendors and they are all still okay and just waiting to see what happens! It’s so stressful with covid and I hadn’t been stressed for any part of planning until this happened!
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  • Margaret
    Master October 2020
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    I understand. We had our wedding on the 10th and we've been on that roller coaster. All I can say is stay strong and confident. It worked for us and I'm sure it will work for you too.

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    Savvy November 2020
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    Thank you! And congratulations!!
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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
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    I'm so sorry you're stressed out Sam!! Try to do some things that help you calm down, take lots of deep breath, and try not to stress yourself out over things you can't control!

    Sending you lots of virtual hugs!! Smiley heart

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