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Lisa
Rockstar July 2022

Wedding Superstition/Tradition: The Night Before The Wedding

Lisa, on May 17, 2022 at 9:31 AM

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Are you and your future spouse spending the night before your wedding away from each other? Or staying together?
Are you and your future spouse spending the night before your wedding away from each other? Or staying together?

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  • Amber
    Just Said Yes June 2022
    Amber ·
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    So we will be staying together the night before my fiance and i dont believe in superstitions
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  • Alex
    Just Said Yes July 2022
    Alex ·
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    I guess I don't want enough movies with people getting married. Glad to know we were both lost on that tradition! That sounds like a money saver for sure and more comfortable as well.
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  • Braelynn
    Beginner November 2022
    Braelynn ·
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    We will most likely be together, I will leave before he wakes and he’ll see me at the alter!!!!🥹🥴
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  • Rachel
    Just Said Yes November 2022
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    He wants to be separate. I don’t really mind but he definitely wants to be separate. 😂
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  • Cassie
    Just Said Yes October 2022
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    Yes we will be together the night of the wedding
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
    Lisa ·
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    My fiance and I aren't very superstitious either, and we are also staying together the night before our wedding. Are you doing a first look?
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
    Lisa ·
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    I don't watch a whole lot of movies either, especially ones with weddings in them, but the ones I have seen, I feel like the traditions are usually very exaggerated. Glad I'm not the only one who isn't following this one!
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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
    Lisa ·
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    Aww, awesome that you'll get the best of both worlds! Staying with him, but also sneaking out that morning before he sees you. That will be one special moment at the altar for you both!
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  • Braelynn
    Beginner November 2022
    Braelynn ·
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    Yes, we love the idea of the tradition but we’re away from each other enough already due to work 😂😩
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  • S
    Just Said Yes October 2022
    Sky ·
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    I have an early start and he’s not exactly a morning person so I think he will spend the night at home with our pup and I’ll go to our hotel (where the makeup at 9am will be happening) the night before.
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  • Melanie
    Just Said Yes December 2023
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    We aren’t very far into planning…. Just research stages really… but. We will prob stay apart.. not due to superstitious beliefs but because I want to hang with my gal pals the night before all together
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  • E
    Just Said Yes December 2022
    Elizabeth ·
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    We're sleeping apart!
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  • Ronalee
    Beginner July 2022
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    We are staying separately. We are Christians so we have been staying in our own houses throughout our relationship and engagement. Although we will have our new house before the wedding we agreed to stay living and sleeping separate until we are married.

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  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
    Lisa ·
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    Very cool that he wants to follow the tradition! Are you planning to do a first look? Or will the first time he sees you on the wedding day be at the altar?
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  • D
    Just Said Yes October 2022
    Danielle ·
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    We decided to spend the night together and get rid of that tradition! We’ve been together for 11 years and the thought of being excited the night before separated felt weird for us. We want to have those night before excitement jitters together!
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  • M
    Just Said Yes October 2022
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    We are staying separately, I’m excited for the tradition and anticipation of seeing him for the first time while walking down the aisle (not doing a first look). Also, will be nice to have one last night with my teenage daughters the night before. It was just the 3 of us for a few years before I met my fiancée. Looking forward to spending that night with them and getting ready with them and the rest of my ladies in the morning.
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  • Christine
    Just Said Yes October 2022
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    Together of course
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  • Katy
    Just Said Yes October 2022
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    We are spending the night separately. We’ll see each other at the rehearsal spend some time together and then we’re going our own ways. This will the night I’m spending with my family as a single person. We’ll see each there when we do a first look as I walk down the isle
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  • Amber
    Just Said Yes June 2022
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    Hes going to be the first one to see me in my dress because my cousin is doing my makeup and my aunts doing my hair
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  • Mary
    Just Said Yes June 2022
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    We are staying away from each other! We won’t see each other until we are married
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