wedding tomorrow and sick as hell help need Advice!

I am so sorry that you are so sick! You definitely shouldn't go. You can easily spread that to others and you don't want to feel miserable the whole time. Your friend will definitely understand! I know it's so hard to miss important events like this but the right thing to do would be to stay home.

See if they can facetime or zoom you so you can at least witness the ceremony!

You definitely should not go to the wedding. That’s the safest thing for everyone. Make a doctors appointment ASAP.

You definitely should not go to this wedding. Hand foot and mouth doesn’t magically go away in a day and you can still be contagious even if you’re feeling better tomorrow.

View Quoted Comment I know you are right deep down I know this ... I am in tears she did not take it well at all I know she is just very upset right now and grieving trying to process what I said but it hurts so damn much I hate this I hate this sooo much I told her I’ve been scrambling thr last 24 hours talking to doctors and friends trying to arrange a sitter there and make it work and it’s not happening and I’d feel worse if I upset her and made her cry or made the decision day of - ruining her day 😭😭😭😭

I am so sorry your going through this, I wouldn't go it is highly contagious, We have had it in our house before and it sucks, however, if you can start antibiotics 24 hours after you start you are no longer contaigous

Coxsackie is very contagious and you should wait for your blisters to disappear and your doctor clear all of you. Take care of yourself. Your friend is experiencing a lot of emotions and stress with getting married, so give it a few days for her to settle in with what's important.

I understand the disappointment and wanting to be there for your friend's wedding. However, if this pandemic has taught us anything, it is the importance of staying home when you have a contagious illness. As a previous poster suggested, maybe you can be FaceTimed or Zoomed into the wedding, but it is not safe for you to attend in person.

Is it possible for someone to hold a phone up to a mic. so you can still give your speech?

View Quoted Comment This was my thoughts too!! You definitely need to stay home. It’s a curveball and I’m sure it’s stressful and sad for everyone involved but do not go when you are ill and especially when you are contagious. But I’m sure you’re friend would understand and in the end be grateful that you stayed home instead. Could you imagine being on your honeymoon and being sick because your MOH and your flower girl came to your wedding knowingly being contagious?!? Don’t stress about it and see if you can at least stand in via FaceTime or zoom. And possibly still give your speech over the phone. Heck you could even get dressed up and record your speech and send it to her or another bridesmaid to play for them if they have AV set up too.