Wedding vs Prom

No she only get one prom in her life just like you only get one wedding she stay for the ceremony and some of the reception and go to prom so both of you get what you want ps end of the day y’all are sister she will always be there for you

You are wrong. Like pp stated. She gets one prom like you get one wedding. Did you go to prom?

Didn't you check with your VIPs before setting your date?

Prom date was set after my wedding date. And she has gone to other proms before. I think my issue is shes going with a boy she juust met and doesnt really know. Idk, i wasnt much upset til my friend kinda talked me into being upset. Meeep.

I know you're upset because you'd like to have her there, but she's coming to the actual important part, and I think that's a nice compromise. Just try and understand that when you're in HS prom sometimes seems like the most important thing in the world, and she wants her chance (may not be the only chance but it's still significant) to dress up and maybe she really likes this guy even if she just met him- I remember being very silly over guys at that age. Don't be upset with her, even if you're bummed. She's not old enough to drink and probably doesn't have a lot of friends coming to your reception so ultimately she's picking the party that's going to be more suited to her-I know it's your most important day but like I said, she's coming for the part that matters and will be in the pics. You probably wouldn't have had much time to spend with her during the reception anyway, with all the other stuff going on. Let this one go and enjoy your wedding!

Tell your friend to stay in her lane and srop causing drama. Doesn't matter if prom date was set after your wedding date, it is still just as important to a high schooler.