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Gen
Champion June 2019

Wedding weekend timeline for Bridesmaids

Gen, on April 18, 2019 at 3:49 PM

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I wrote this up for my girls, and a similar one for FH's guys... I'm an extremely organized person and I want to be detailed and specific but I'm worried it's too much, or that I'm missing something? What do you all think? Saturday, June 1 3:00pm: Please meet us at the venue for: a rehearsal of the...

I wrote this up for my girls, and a similar one for FH's guys... I'm an extremely organized person and I want to be detailed and specific but I'm worried it's too much, or that I'm missing something? What do you all think?


Saturday, June 1

3:00pm: Please meet us at the venue for: a rehearsal of the ceremony, reviewing who is going to do what, thank you gifts.

What we need from you: Come dressed for the Rehearsal Dinner (or bring a change of clothes).

4:40pm: Drive to Rehearsal Dinner

5:00pm: Rehearsal Dinner (expected to go until 7 or 8pm)

What we need from you:

-Someone (or multiple people) to be responsible for taking some pictures at the dinner

-Someone to be responsible for taking a video of the speeches.


Sunday, June 2

10:00am: Please arrive at the Bridal Suite at 10am with comfy clothes, messy hair, and no makeup for a fun morning of beautifying and mimosas (Please don’t come earlier than 10am - Jason will be sleeping in the Bridal Suite.)

10:00AM: Makeup

10:40am: Hair

11:30am: Photographer arrives on site for pre-ceremony photos with Groom and Groomsmen

11:40am: Photographer arrives in the Bridal Suite for pre-ceremony photos with Bride and Bridesmaids.

What we need from you:

-We should be ready-or just putting on the finishing touches-by this time.

-Photographers have MOH's phone number as “someone who will be with the Bride” so please answer any calls from unknown numbers!

12:00pm: Guest doors to the ballroom close.

What we need from you: Bride and Bridesmaids come downstairs, enter ballroom from back door, and prepare for processional.

12:05pm: Processional Begins

What we need from you:

-Bridesmaids to enter from behind the curtain one at a time, and be met by Groomsmen

-MOH to announce “Please stand for the Bride” when she arrives at the altar.

12:30pm: Ceremony concludes. Bridal Party to join Bride, Groom, and Families outside for photos. Other guests will proceed downstairs for Cocktail Hour.

1:00pm: Bridal Party and Families to join guests for Cocktail Hour.

What we need from you: We will need people to be responsible for the Wedit cameras, and for taking videos during cocktail hour.

1:30pm: Cocktail Hour ends, Bridal Party/Guests come back upstairs to the ballroom for the Reception.

What we need from you: Someone will need to set up a Wedit camera for the photo booth.

1:45pm: Bride and Groom are introduced and enter the reception, followed by first dance.

What we need from you:

-Someone to announce the entrance

-Someone to take a video of the entrance and dance.

-Someone to be responsible for setting up, and playing the first dance song, and the rest of the playlist to follow.

1:50pm: Toasts (each to be 2-3 minutes long)

What we need from you: Someone to take videos of these speeches.

2:00pm: Lunch is served, reception continues.

What we need from you: Wedit cameras can be passed among the bridal party for video-purposes throughout the reception.

4:00pm: Cake cutting

What we need from you: Someone to take a video of this.

4:05pm: Cake, coffee, and tea are served

5:00pm: Reception concludes.

What we need from you: Someone to be responsible for collecting all 5 Wedit cameras and returning them to us.


33 Comments

  • Sarah
    Devoted June 2020
    Sarah ·
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    That totally makes sense! The background information really helps! I just wanted to make sure you had thought it through but you 100% have! Like I said, I love to have details outlined too! All the best!
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  • Sarah
    Devoted June 2020
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    Also, I super apologize because you had answered my questions while I must have still been typing. 😬
    I wouldn't have submitted my comment if I saw it!
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  • C
    Dedicated August 2019
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    I think saying not to arrive before 10 am is kind of snotty. We have to be at the place for Hair and makeup by 10 am and it will go until 145. The girls are coming earlier to help set up and we are providing breakfast for asking them to do something so early. My FH is well aware that it will be a crazy busy day for us and is planning on being "out of the way" by 8 am latest.

    Maybe a spread sheet would be more efficient. Have the times in the left hand column and on the right everything delegated. (organized by bride/groom/bridesmaids/groomsmen etc)

    It sounds off putting to ask everyone to take video of specific things, they will want to enjoy them in the moment. Maybe ask a cousin in the crowd or just pay someone 50 bucks to hang out all night and video those important moments for you.

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  • J
    Devoted June 2019
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    Hello!!


    I think this is entirely to much responsibility for your bridal party. It appears that you dont have a videographer due to you asking for video of entrance and etc. Why is the MOH stating for all to stand? Do you not have an officiant. I know the wedding party is suppose to help and support but it feels like you using them for a job a DOC or wedding planner would do.

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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    Between 8 people we are asking them to take a video of 3 things, I don’t understand how that’s too much to ask 😂 I know they will be happy to do it. My brother is our officiant and is walking me down the aisle.
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  • J
    Devoted June 2019
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    If your bridal party has already been asked and they are up to it then that's perfect. I just know the bridal party are as excited to experience these things with the bride. So having the duty to video tape entrances, speeches, ect could be a bit much. If it works for you then perfect.

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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    Yeah, one of my bridesmaids was specifically saying that she’s excited to help with video/photo-taking. She is super type A and likes being helpful hahha, and she also won’t know anyone else at the wedding so I know she’ll be thrilled to have helpful things to do. I just didn’t want to like “assign” things to her in the timeline before we’ve gone over the details of everything. Idk if you saw my previous comment but I did take out everything that said the responsibilities that we’ll need... we’ll just go over all that separately because in reality we are asking very little of them, but i do agree it looks like a lot the way I had written it out to begin with! That’s why I always run everything by y’all on this site Smiley smile
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    It depends on the person. If I was a bridesmaid, this would give me LIFE. I can't be organized enough, and I get stressed when the plan isn't clear. Maybe for the men, make it shorter. I have to shorten all information when I send it to the groomsmen or they won't read it haha

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  • J
    Devoted June 2019
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    That sounds awesome. I am glad you were able to make changes that you like. I am type A person too, but I am trusting my wedding coordinators will have everything in placed. I will be praying for patience on my wedding day.

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  • Alyssa
    Super September 2019
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    OK this new one is MUCH less overwhelming, in my opinion. I think it will also be a lot less overwhelming for your wedding party. I am a very organized person too and plan on doing a timeline a long the same line as yours so I think it was a good idea.

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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    Hahaha that is such a good point! Maybe will do that for them 😂 the thing with our guys is, the best man is SO organzied and great at planning. My FH is terrible at this stuff so the best man has ended up enthusiastically jumping on some of FH’s responsibilities and he’s been such a lifesaver with helping to coordinate stuff with the other guys. The other guys are just... what you’d pretty much expect from guys hahahah
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
    Gen ·
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    Thanks for the feedback! Smiley smile I knew that initial one looked way too cluttered and looked like I was asking for way more than I am lol. That's why I always run things by y'all haha

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    That MUST BE NICE. Hahahaha! Our best man is a man child, so while very sweet - my fiance & I have helped him plan the bachelor party since he has helped so much. I've been very on top of everyone for everything else haha!

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