Wedding Wording

You don't need to write those things anywhere. If you dont' have a registry, everyone will give you card and money. (Maybe a few gits will trickle in, but they'd do that anyway no matter what you write). No one needs to know it's a dry wedding, so I wouldn't worry about either issue.

Hi Kalysta! You don't have to include either of these things on your wedding invitations!!

Not having an established registry is enough of a hint that you'd prefer cash instead, but you can also register for gift cards at a few retailers if you'd like!

I would let your immediate family & closest friends know this information though, so they can help field questions and spread the news by word of mouth!