Weddings bringing out the worst in family..

Thank you for the kind words everyone. It's hard to talk to FH alot about this bc he is the type who doesn't like drama at all and obviously doesn't like to see me upset, so it's tough to keep talking about it. He's a move on kind of guy and I stay stuck. On a positive note, we did get news today that my FSIL DOES NOT have cancer, which is amazing news. I have not spoken to my mother or my sister since the incident, which was Saturday into Sunday. My sister has a way of making things about her and my fiancee calls it the "(her name) show". His sister is a moocher who expects everyone to foot the bill for her. My sister is now demanding my FH apologize to her for yelling at her over the phone about all of this. I wasn't aware that I had so much control over someone else to make them do something.. If it was that simple, I would tell the powers that be I'd like to have my lottery money now. LOL, wtf is wrong with people? The best part---- my sister has shredded me apart before..been nasty, rude, disrespectful and never once have I asked for an apology. I'm trying my best to not let it bother me, however, it is very difficult. June 8th can't get here soon enough.

We are doing a small wedding in Vegas with roughly 30 people so they are not invited. My mom is the 2nd youngest out of her siblings so most of them are pretty up there in age and don't like places like Vegas anyway. If we invited them we'd be guilted into inviting all the cousins on that side as well which would mean potentially around 30 more people. I am inviting one cousin from my mom's side because we've always been close and she knows I had nothing to do with all that drama. If it was local and we had the $ for a bigger wedding we'd invite them though...if we could find out what their addresses are lol.