My fiancé and I are set to get married in 8 months. These issues that we’re having aren’t making me completely question getting married to him, but it’s definitely making me wonder. Whenever I try to express any ounce of discontent I’m having in our relationship he completely shuts down. He gets annoyed with me, turns it around on me, he just doesn’t really hear me out.
I can’t even begin to describe how many different ways i’ve tried to express my concerns where it doesn’t offend him. I sit down with them and calmly express myself, I make sure to throw in compliments and things I really appreciate that he does so he doesn’t feel attacked, but he always ends up feeling attacked somehow. It’s to the point where I don’t even try to communicate, I just push my feelings to the side which then causes lots of inner resentment towards him. I don’t like being unhappy, I just want to fix it but it seems impossible when he won’t really hear me out.
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