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Dedicated August 2023

Were you nervous to walk down the aisle?

Katie, on June 22, 2022 at 2:46 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 1 27
Were you nervous to walk down the aisle?
I am .
Like im Not nervous to marry the love of life.I'm nervous for people staring at me.
I know the main focus is you and your future partner ✨️ .
I don't like attention on me lol might sound stupid . 🤣 but it's just how I feel.
I know we will be surrounded by our family/ friends ❤️ I'm just getting butterflies just thinking about it hahaha. What can I do to keep the nerves down . Any tips.
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Latest activity by Julija, on August 8, 2022 at 12:12 PM
  • Sloane
    Super May 2022
    Sloane ·
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    I think a lot of people feel that way. But I for myself was not nervous at all. I embraced the attention and kept my eye laser focused on him as I walked. I am in front of large audiences all the time so the attention that I received at my wedding was no different from that being the center of attention doesn’t bother me whatsoever. But I do understand for most people it is a struggle. I would say just relax and concentrate on him and tune everybody else out. Hope this helps
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  • K
    Dedicated August 2023
    Katie ·
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    I wish I was use to being the center of attention in front of big groups . 😕 lol I still struggle with that.


    I will definitely be just looking at him and him only lol . 😆
    Thank you for the advice 🙏
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I definitely did not feel the butterflies until the day before and then the moments before walking down the aisle i could really feel the nerves

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  • Sloane
    Super May 2022
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    Yep just lock eyes with him and think about how handsome he looks. He’s the only one that matters at that moment.
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  • K
    Dedicated August 2023
    Katie ·
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    Awe.
    I'm sure the butterflies will be worst the week of the wedding.


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  • Sara M
    Dedicated June 2022
    Sara M ·
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    Smile smile smile !!!! I smiled so much because I was genuinely happy to see me and mine make it 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
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  • K
    Dedicated August 2023
    Katie ·
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    🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
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  • Grace
    Super February 2022
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    I was so nervous that I was going to trip! I even had the hem raised a little bit higher than floor length in the front because my open toed shoes were catching the tulle.



    I had butterflies the whole morning leading up to the ceremony but then something unexpected happened that made me laugh right before the doors opened for me to walk down the aisle. From there I couldn't stop smiling! (The unexpected thing was the DJ playing the wrong song and my dad's horrified reaction was so extreme it made me laugh and relax).
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  • Imani
    Master July 2022
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    I think this is normal. I don’t mind the attention, but as the time gets near and near I can feel myself getting a tad bit nervous lol
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  • Sloane
    Super May 2022
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    That’s a great story 🤩🤩. I remember being so confidently ready for that moment. I recall assertively saying you guys no more touch ups I’m ready!
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    Dedicated July 2022
    Danielle ·
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    Our venue requires my dad and I to walk down stairs (plus the entire wedding party), so I am a bit nervous about tripping.. that being said, that would totally be me, so if it happens, I anticipate everyone laughing it off Smiley winking
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  • K
    Dedicated August 2023
    Katie ·
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    Awwww.
    I wish you tons of luck.
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  • D
    Dedicated July 2022
    Danielle ·
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    Haha!! THANKS!! You too ❤️
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  • Alisha
    Rockstar April 2021
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    I was a nervous wreck waiting to walk down the aisle. I am like you and I don’t like being the center of attention either but once I got down the aisle to my husband I was fine. All of the nerves went away. I think it is normal to feel this way
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  • K
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    Katie ·
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    I'm sure once I see my husband
    I'll be fine.
    And then we are reciting our vows to each other. I'm kinda nervous speaking in front of ppl .I think I'm going to work on that with some of my friends. To get some practice in .
    I'm soft speaker when I'm in front of a lot ppl . I'm just hoping I don't mess up. 😂😂😂
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  • Alisha
    Rockstar April 2021
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    Once I at the alter with my husband I actually forgot that I was in front of people. I think part of that was that I was with my best friend and we were getting married and that we were ourselves. My husband ease my mind bc he was being himself and silly which took a load off and everyone was laughing because of him and my cousin who officiated our wedding. It was hilarious bc my husband wanted to kiss me before we were supposed to. We had created such a environment that I no longer worried or nervous at all. All this to say is that everything will be wonderful and beautiful that you will not be nervous or worried about the guests. Best of luck on your wedding
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  • K
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    Awe thank you very much !!!


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  • Alisha
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    You are welcome
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  • Traci
    Expert May 2025
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    I'm nervous a Lil my biggest fear is falling. Lol that's it tho. I guess you could practice walking in your heels and smiling. Heck idk. Lol💜
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  • Michael
    Rockstar October 2023
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    That's a great story. We want everything to be perfect but the snafus are going to happen. That is part of life. I hope the song was not too bad.

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