What are you doing for your bachelorette parties?

The girls and I are having dinner at The Cheesecake Factory and then going out for drinks at a nearby club. My bridesmaid arranged to have the whole VIP room with our own bartender for our lingerie bachelorette party.

YUMMMM I love Cheesecake Factory! Sounds like it'll be a fun night! Me and the fiance talked about it a few weeks ago and he suggested we do something together like get a limo and party together for the night but now his 2 best friends said we gotta do things separate one just offered to pay for his trip to Vegas... I dont trust his one friend the one that offered the Vegas trip... idk what im going to do i don't wanna come across as jeolous but I just feel like the bride shouldn't have to worry about what hes doing or more what his friends are getting him into and I feel things can get out of hand quick with some of his single friends. We haven't talked about it but when he told me his friend offered to pay for Vegas my fiance knew I didn't like that idea....

I think what you are feeling is understandable Ruby. It's easy for guys to get carried away in Vegas! Just explain to you FH how you feel and if he still decides he want to go then you just need to trust him.

We are doing ours separately. The girls and I will be in the Okanogan for the weekend taking in wine tours and other activities. I am SO excited for it as I have friends coming from all over!

We are going to dinner first. Restaurant unknown as of now. Then to a Cincinnati Reds game vs. Pittsburgh Pirates game in our jersey we made "TEAM BRIDE"! Then we have a hotel room across the river and we are going back to change and go out to a club across the street!

We had separate bachelor/ette parties. The guys just went out to dinner at Maggiano's, the girls and I went to dinner and then out on the town, but it had an 80s theme so we were all dressed up in neon and silliness. We did have a couples shower instead of a bridal shower, though.

I wish I could give more advice on the friend you don't trust, but if you trust your H, I would hope that his friends wouldn't be able to get him into trouble, because he'd be able to say no to anything stupid, ya know? But again, maybe other ladies can give better advice.

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We are having a joint bachelor/ette party. A day at the races is what my moh and his bm is planning. This is both our 2nd marriages and this sounded so much fun and we happy to combine

We are having our bachelor/ bachelorette party in Vegas.. One day we do something together and next day they do their own thing and we do ours.. Us girls our getting a cabana by the pool, going to the spa, doing a little shopping, and going to have a nice dinner.. Maybe going out dancing afterwards.. I know my fh said for the guys they might go to the gun range, go to the sports bar, I guess there is a game they want to watch so food and beer they will enjoy. Fh even said he wanted to hang out with us girls at the pool, lol.. I know because it's Vegas people automatically think party.. Its mostly couples that are going and I trust my fh so there is nothing to worry about.

@Tonya B are you from Washington state? We are doing a semi joined party we have a large house 3000+ square feet. So the ladies any I are going to have a DIY and baking day and my fh and his buddies are going to take the basement and play video games and eat some pizza homemade from the ladies. In the evening we all plan on going out together to a country bar and taking a limo their. We will return to our house for some sleep

I am really hoping we are rock climbing.

Thanks for the advice ladies! All your party ideas sound great! I definetly trust my fiance we've known each other for over 6 yrs together since 2010 so trust isn't a problem its what his friends might get him into lol and my fiance can drink so hes told me he wouldn't let them make him do something he didn't want to do but when there is heavy drinking involved you just never know lol. We'll see i honestly wouldn't mind having separate bachorelette parties but the Vegas part I don't like it would be different if it was like what your doing Val where you would both be their maybe not together but you'll know probably what's going. We'll see we have awhile to go

HAHA Lynzey I feel the same way about everything you said! I only wanna see my man naked lol

All my girls and I are meeting up in LA for a long weekend! Since I live in Vegas, and have done many bachelorette parties for other girls here, I didn't want to do it here. I have no idea what we're doing once we're in Cali (and no one will tell me either!). My FH and his boys are doing 2 bachelor parties, one here in Vegas, and another one in Chicago (where we're getting married). I'm so excited!

LMAO Lynzey! Dying laughing right now! Lol

FH and i are going combined. We are going to the melting pot ( fondue restaurant ) then all going to the Rivers casino. Our guests were thrilled it was combined as the majority are married. We can't wait.

Lol Lynzey... I so agree.. That's one thing I said I don't want.. No sweaty, hairy, half naked men.. Eww I don't want them touching me unless its Fh.

Yeah @ Christine most of our bridal party on both sides are married too except for like 3 of them. I like your idea that's what my friend did too for their bachelor parties... they rented a limo then we stopped to get dinner first then went to a few casinos in Detroit. Everyone had a good time especially the bride and groom lol

We did separate parties. Mine was going out for dinner at a Greek restaurant in this area of town with lots of bars, restaurants, etc. Then we walked around, doing some scavenger hunt stuff. Then went to a bar for drinking and dancing. It was a great time! I also made one request for no naked men/strippers.

My DH's party was going go-carting first, they made him wear a dress and wig to look like Princess Peach (Super Mario). Then got to take it off the dress and wig, went to a Brazilian Restaurant, then went to a couple bars and finally to the strippers. He had a great time and was very hung over the next day.

His guys r so hard to get ahold of, who even knows what they'd do together..lol My little sis (MOH) suggested dinner & a hookah bar since she's underage. I'd feel bad going drinking & making her be DD. Some good ol fashioned PG-13 partying

Sounds like a fun time tho Nicole!

Thanks, Ruby. I hope it will be. She's in Philly @ school so she won't be able to plan much til she gets home, but she's pretty good @ it.